Am I wrong for being mad that my ex lets his wife cut my sons hair w out asking me first?

Not at all. That’s not acceptable at all. Have you spoken to her about it??

Do you take your son to get haircuts without asking your ex first?

I don't ask my son's father for permission to get my son's hair cut but I also wouldn't want his girlfriend to do it, I let my boyfriend do it one time and that was just to touch up the hack job the last hair dresser did...

So does your sons dad at least know when she’s going to cut his hair? I mean I’d be pissed if she just took it upon herself to cut it but if he’s giving the okay, that’s different...

No I don’t ask him, I am his mother! He isn’t the one cutting it. I just got it cut 2 wks ago w bangs to spike them up n she buzzed it short. I dont talk to her at all, I have no clue if he knows! This is 2 that lost visits times w the kids cuz they decided to buckle my kids in car seats after drinking. A father that has 10 kids n when I text him bout our daughter having a well being check up he wanted to know why a well being check up was needed and what did I do, if u have 10 n don’t know what that is you prob shouldn’t need anymore! Or doesn’t show up to his son having surgery