Finally took my first baby bump pic at 23 weeks pregnant and when I saw it all I could do was tear up 😭😭 I cropped out my face because it’s big and Round, my arms are huge, and I just don’t find myself remotely attractive. I know I need to stop self deprecating and remember I’m growing a life inside me but all I could think was how did I allow myself to get pregnant at such an unhealthy weight. The past week I’ve cried almost everyday and I wish my partner would tell me I’m beautiful or be affectionate towards me 😭😭😭
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@lillynellasmom, we almost look the same except I’m flat chested Lol
@lillynellasmom, I don’t know why they have to tell us that and then the want us to not fall under depression/ppd 🤦♀️
@rgar7623 yeah they pretty much do that they did that even for my last one too cuz I'm 5'2 so even when i had me second child i was still label that as well i guess that what i get for being short lol.
@lillynellasmom, I think it’s just that the doctor also labeled me as “obese” at my last doctors appt because of my height/weight and the lack of affection. I looked at your photos and you look good. I hope I’m that confident when I have my baby at the hospital and someone decides to take a pic of me 🙂
If you want to talk about getting pregnant at an unhealthy weight I was 200 pounds when I got pregnant this time and you are small and I would be happy to the like you right now but no I look like a huge Michelin woman.
@jenvali, maybe you’re right especially since his 3 kids from his previous marriage are all teens and he’s starting over at 40. we had also talked about not having kids a month before finding out I was already 9 weeks pregnant 🤰
Pregnancy freaks my so out. He loves the outcome but is weird during it. Maybe yours is too?
@jenvali, thank you for the advice and compliment. I guess what doesn’t help is that my partner isn’t as affectionate or always too tired to do “anything”. It makes me think that it’s me at times
I actually find you to be quite little. It’s a slippery slope of self-loathing, so I will share a piece of advice with you. Be careful, because I couldn’t adjust to my pp body and it was definitely one of the triggers that led me into ppd. You look great!
@rgar7623 its called a push up padded bra because my boobs are not that big. Also my belly is bigger than yours and I'm only 15 weeks yes as my third child but still. Lol