I was always faithful to my husband never cheated on him at all been married 5 years but found text…

Does he want to work it out. I'm sorry you're going through this as well Hun

Is counselling an option?

Girl, its not on you, its not your fault, its on him and its HIS fault, there are no excuses to justify infidelity, any crap he might say about you not being this or that is him trying to escape blame. You don't deserve that shit. You deserve to be treated like a queen. If he's unhappy in the relationship for whatever reason, hes a big boy, he should have communicated his feelings instead of choosing to mess around.

That’s what they do.

They have women to have all them kids and be stuck in the house, then go cheat with women who don’t have any or who go out.

I am so sorry you are going through this hun, do not blame yourself. You've given him beautiful children you say you've never cheated on him you've done everything you can to be a good wife housekeeper mother and a woman. Again do not blame yourself. You could be the best woman in the world to him and he couldn't love you deeply but they are weak and they Bow Down to their sexual needs sometimes over their families. Some men (secretly all of them) are weak pathetic cowards, selfish, self-centered, self righteous spoiled pricks. They're like the big child you never asked for. if you ever need to talk hun you know I'm always here for you.

Ive been thru this too girl, and he had the nerve to be pissed at ME for looking at his phone, nvm that hes sexting another damn girl like a lying sack of shit 😔 smh

You're not alone ❤

If you can’t work it out or don’t want to work it out. Make sure you document everything. The minute you leave a week later, you ask him for financial help with the kids and if he says NO, document this. Do everything over text or email. Save all receipts of everything you buy for the kids. Not sure on alimony laws where you live because every state is different.

So sorry you have to go thru this and don’t blame yourself. Seek counseling for yourself if possible to help you get thru this.

So, sorry that has happened hun. Prayers you two will be able to work it out or witch ever route you both decide to do. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

A good MAN won't cheat.

Most men cheat ,some of them are good at hiding it .Just forgive him and try to work things out

Don’t leave fight for your marriage.Stay cause he didn’t ask you to leave I know you mad but don’t do that to yourself and the kids

@babyjay27, I’m sorry but I have to respectfully disagree. Most men don’t cheat. Part of being in a relationship is having respect and if a man doesn’t have respect for his partner, he shouldn’t be in her life. Every woman, especially one who carried his children, deserves faithfulness and respect.

@3girls2boys, I’m so sorry you’re going through this so soon after giving birth. I hope you can take time to make a decision that works well for you and your family. Please do not blame yourself. Demand respect because you deserve it.

@mswedes, I didn’t say what he did was right . I just advised her to stay in my marriage cause there is no perfect man out there

@babyjay27, I’m not sure what you’re trying to say by responding. All I said was that I respectfully disagree with your advice. I didn’t misquote or insult you in any way. Maybe I’m simply misunderstanding your tone.

@kelvinsmommy yes

I’m here for you 100% .. babe you have to make your own decisions but just note if you do stay .. he might either do this disrespect you in front of your face now or try hiding it better

@babyjay27, I’m sorry but if I found out my husband was cheating, I’m gonna day adios to his ass. Once a cheater, always a cheater. No point of staying in a marriage where your constantly reminded of it and staying in unhappy marriage is worse than being happy independently! And omg when I was typing the word independently, the song independent came on 😂😂 it’s a sign for you @independentmommy, 😂

@capricorn_mommy_14, while that’s why people are different.We all have different point of views.You have to think about the kids too they need their father’s love if a man is not abusive to you then cheating is not a big deal cause most men do cheat