rant sesh: so my bf’s babymomma has been absent in their child’s life for basically 4 years. she…
rant sesh:
so my bf’s babymomma has been absent in their child’s life for basically 4 years. she only showed up on holidays, birthdays, or when it was convenient for her. she’d always rather go out & party rather than keep her son & she would always come up w/ excuses as to why she couldn’t pick her baby up. a little after my bf & i were together, she got out of jail (lawd) & still made the excuses to not pick him up then be on snapchat at the club or say she would pick him up & never come. after she found out i was pregnant, she was suuuuper mad🤷🏻♀️ & soon after i had Karter she got pregnant w/ her daughter. ever since i had Karter she’s been trying to act like a better mother. seeing her child, taking him places, etc. walking back in his life like she never left. which is great & all. well since i’ve known her son, we’ve formed a great relationship. he’s my son’s brother of course & i love him like my own. he lives w us full time so i spend more time w/ him than his mom does & that’s not my fault 🤷🏻♀️ well i will post pics of the boys together on facebook (one of their grandmas lives in florida & cant always see them) and my bfs babymomma always comments & likes it & says how cute they are. well last night my bf his son & i went to the movies (karter was at his gg’s house) & i posted “at the movies w/ my boys” & my bfs aunt commented asking how kayden did in it since he’s 4 & we had a whole convo. well not too long afterwards, she posted a status about how something “makes her feel so uneasy” & “she’s so tired of seeing this” & all this other stuff that made it pretty obvious she was directing it towards me, then she deleted it pretty soon after she posted it. should i feel like i’m in the wrong here?! like tbh i’m a better role model for his child anyways. i’ve been employed w the same job for almost 3 years, college educated, career on the way, own house, own car, etc. i’m stable & give her son stability but it makes her “uneasy” that i spend all this time w/ her son.🤨 well than maybe she should’ve stepped up to the plate 4 years ago when she got pregnant instead of waiting until her second child to become a mother. idk
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No your not in the wrong whatsoever!! its her beating herself up for being a shit mom and watching someone who deserves to be a mom be a mom to her child! You keep doing what your doing! Your doing a great job!
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Wait, who made the status?? The babymomma or his aunt?
BakingDaddy ·
Any way you can talk to her civilly and basically tell her what you just told us? That he lives with you and is your son's sibling. Would she rather you be a shitty step parent that only includes or talks about your own kid?
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@scx, his baby momma bc she got mad i made a status about her child & that my bfs aunt & i had a convo on my status about her child
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bodybycheetos, that’s what i’m thinking. ik my boundaries & i know i’m not his mother but that doesn’t mean i can’t be a positive female role model in his life. 🤷🏻♀️
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@kartersmommyy, wow that’s crazy. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. But you’re not wrong, at all. If I were in her shoes, I’d actually be extremely happy to know that my baby’s being well taken care of. It just shows how young and how petty this woman is, she hasn’t grown at all. But you keep doing what you’re doing and let her be jealous and feel “uneasy” cause after all, you’re doing everything that she refused to do. I’m happy her son has you for a role model, and I’m sure he wouldn’t have it any other way ^_^
Trinice ·
Wtf no you deserve a fucking plaque! My bfs bbymama has nothing to do w their son, he dkesnt even know her that well & calls me "momma"... The bitch is always on fb saying how she wants to have another baby but diesnt bother to reach out to the one not in her custody,. She claims him on her food stamps and got income tax with his added dependancy! Dead beat bitch😒. 23 with like 6 kids bitch is a bust down. When i was pregnant she started trying to pop up at my bfs grandmas place causing a scene saying he was kidnapped.
c. g·
She should be happy that her son has a great woman like you in his life . Seems like she definitely has alot of guilt and that's not your fault . Keep doing what your doing and love him like your own. Don't even worry about her feelings . I wouldn't even talk to her . Let your man handle that . @kartersmommyy
Alexis·
Мама двоих (младенец)
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kyns.muva, girl ok sounds like my situation. it’s ridiculous. idk why she thought she should have another kid can’t even take care of the one she’s got