Advice plz!! So I'm almost 30, OH almost 40. We have a 17 week old. We rent, he drives, I dont. I…
Advice plz!!
So I'm almost 30, OH almost 40. We have a 17 week old. We rent, he drives, I dont. I have a secure job but with lots of take-home work, he is starting his own business. He would really like another baby (as soon as now!) Can I have your thoughts on if you would in my situation or when would you??
T ·
Personally when my lil boy was 17weeks there’s no way I would of been ready for another baby lol. If it was me and I felt ready and wanted to have another baby then I would but if it wasn’t ready then I’d wait. I’d love to have another now though lol x
S·
Мама сына-младенца
When I was younger I always thought I'd want like a 3/4 year gap but because of my OHs age, and he wants many more babies, its not realistic to leave so long but I don't want to now I want to get to know my baby! I love my job and feel so behind on what's going on there and there's too many uncertainties with or house, jobs I just don't know when would the right time
Gina·
I personally wouldn’t want that- your baby is still very young. I hope for a 3ish year age gap, I want to enjoy my daughter before having another! I can’t imagine how hard it would be to have 2 really young babies together! On the other hand people do and they cope and it’s good that they’ll be close in age etc. it’s just if you’re ready or not xx
Lynda·
Theres 13 months between my 2.. me and my partner are 34 this year. So we didnt want to wait.. my partner set up his own business a year and a half ago ( its been the best thing for him) hes currently in europe for 3 weeks working.. it is definately hard work havin 2 little ones but well worth it.. how do u feel about havin another is the main thing xx