So I went to my friends bridal shower last week and we were talking about bridesmaids dresses. I…
So I went to my friends bridal shower last week and we were talking about bridesmaids dresses. I made a comment about waiting till after she gives birth to get her dress. We all go outside and her brothers girlfriend asked me when are due. I told her I'm not pregnant and she goes sorry I thought that's why you brought up about alterations. I responded no that was towards my bridesmaid. Mind you she was standing there and heard me talk to my friend specifically about her dress. I'm not sure if she was listening, but I felt completely depressed after. Now I feel like I dont want to lose weight since that comment. Like why me. 😔
Amanda Bates·
@sadie.w yeah I dont understand some ppl. Just say something nice or keep your mouth shut ya know lol
Karen·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
Some people just want to be bishes, Ignore her hun. Continue your weight loss journey at your phase, It took me a year to start actually working out hard after having my son.
Amanda Bates·
@karennn yeah it's been really hard for me to get motivated. It doesn't help when others ask if I'm pregnant or my dad getting on me about my weight. Puts a downer on things ya know. The wedding has been stressing me out for sure and its exhausting too. I have to I guess forget about the wedding and get motivated if that makes sense. Thank you by the way
Karen·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@charmed040309, People don’t know how powerful words are and how it can affect people. They don’t even have any business asking you about your weight, They should mind their business. And I understand, Wedding prep is always a pain.
No problem, I’m no where near where I wanted to be and I got pregnant again lol, So now I have to start all over whenever I have the energy and motivation after this baby
Amanda Bates·
@karennn agreed. People shouldn't just assume, wait for that person to say something. Aww congrats on your pregnancy. I shouldnt stress so much, but the weddings a year away and none of my bridesmaids has called me to schedule an appointment to get them dressed like come on now lol