Crazy back pain,and my daughter has a bad cough and just had a crazy crying episode my princess is sick and momma is tired and in pain ...HELP ME

Update on my crazy life!
So I keep feeling these lil sharp pains on my right side. You do get pains like that before you start your period right.? Remember I had that dark brown spotting for a few hours last month on the 22. My period suppose to start today.
Having some pretty intense constant lower back pain and maybe super light contractions. But can't tell because the back pain is way over powering contractions so I'm walking around my room to see if they get worse.
Those winds are crazy it’s shaking my whole house 🙀
Family secrets
What's a big family secret of yours? Or crazy story?