Hi girls i have a question im pretty scared, as of now im 9 days late 3 test positives and me n my bf just had sex and…

@vero323 very welcome !

@angikay, i go in until monday i cant take a day off wrk to go sooner but yess def will keep u posted thank u soo much i appreciate it

@vero323 Definetly see your doctor to check and see if hcg is rising like it should, like Beaky suggested. It could be a lot of different things. I'll keep you In my prayers. Let me know how your appt goes tomorrow.

@spookylyn, thank u🙏🏽

@vero323, Your welcome

@beakymcspence, @spookylyn, oh wow ok girls will check hopefully its all good thanks soooo much for the info

@vero323 a chemical is when your egg gets fertilized but doesnt stick for whatever reason. So you may see positive tests, but then your lines may fade away. And the pregnancy doesnt progress. You go on to start your period.

@vero323, I had a chemical back in March (3rd round of Clomid) Was just like getting a light period a few days after getting a positive test. You don’t pass a bunch of tissue or anything as your not far enough along. Then my tests faded to negative. I’m not saying this is the case for you, but it’s a possibility. Probably best to make an appt to have your HCG blood draw so they can confirm pregnancy and that your levels are rising.

@vero323 good luck at your appointment. Its probably due to you having sex. Thats what it was for me. But every pregnancy is different and so just because thats whatbit was for me, doesnt mean thats what it is for you. But sex can cause bleeding in early pregnancy, its the number one cause of it actually.

@vero323 thank you , its terrifying !!

@beakymcspence, how is a chemical? How does that feel or what are symptoms if any?

@angikay, i havent been to the dr until monday is my appt

@angikay, omg thats so scary but it ease my worries a bit i have kids already n never experienced this before which i know every pregnancy is different but im glad to know eveythin is goin well for u it is something u cant control not to worry about but hope all goes well for both of us thanks soo much for ur reply🙏🏽

If your only 9 days late it could be a chemical.

Has your pregnancy been confirmed?

As long as u aren't seeing any tissue or clots or having bad cramps, id say it's completely normal. The first time I had sex while pregnant, I started bleeding at 6 weeks. Thought I was miscarrying.. But nope baby was just fine. They told me in early pregnancy the number one cause for vaginal bleeding or spotting is sex!! Because your cervix is very sensitive and engorged with blood right now. So they told me it was likely a ruptured blood vessel in my cervix due to sex. That was the only time I seen red blood. And it was only for that day. I had been put on pelvic rest. At 6 weeks and 3 days I started gushing blood again.. Though there was no sex, but it was dark brown blood! Went back to the emergency room because my appt was still a week away. Baby's heart rate had gone up from 98 to 113. The bleeding got lighter but they diagnosed me with a hemorrhage around my placenta implantation site. A few days later.. I was back in the emergency room again.. Baby's heart rate was up to 128. Everything was fine. I had My first actual ob appt at 7 weeks and 4 days... Was still bleeding at this point. Baby's heart rate was 158. Im now 8 weeks and 4 days.. Still bleeding and have been on pelvic rest since 6 weeks. I'm having to see my doctor every 2 weeks until bleeding is gone. But it's so terrifying still. He said he wasn't concerned with the bleeding and that it's from my placenta implanting. He said unless I see clots or tissue.. And have had cramps and bleeding that fills a pad within an hour.. Its usually nothing to worry about.

@spookylyn, thank u for commenting back, i hope everythin is fine i appreciate the help

@spookylyn, it was alot i would say and no blood clots or pain that happened lastnight this morning when i wipe i see only pinkish and didnt stain my pad over night