Last Thursday I received a txt from my soon to be SIL saying my BIL asked her if my daughter could…

I'd let it go. Your brothers wants are more important than your future sister-in-law's. He's your brother and will always be your brother.

@mommiesaremagical14 I'm doing my best not to say anything. Just hate that she is always making snarky comments about my daughter and has since she was born. Her youngest daughter (my niece) is 2 weeks older than my oldest. Just wanna tell her if YOU don't want her in your wedding it won't hurt my feelings.

@mckennasmommy I honestly think there's nothing wrong with speaking your mind. If it were me I would. Especially if it's going to come down to my kid.

@mommiesaremagical14 I have been keeping quiet and haven't said anything to my husband because I dont want to start anything between him and his brother and I dont want the girls to not see eachother because they really love eachother but I seriously cant stand her and her shady self.

@mckennasmommy I completely understand. It's just that if it were me I would look at it as trying to rectify a negative situation in the family. She's the one with some type of issue so it shouldn't affect your husband and his brothers relationship. I also don't think that those girls would grow up having a decent relationship because of whatever deep conceited issue it is she has with your child or you.

@mommiesaremagical14 Right...it drives my MIL crazy that we dont like eachother. But I told her that I think shes shady and Indont like the way she uses my in-laws and she acts like my egg donor and I have no respect for her. She has 3 older girls. One was in France and just moved to the US a year ago and she was suppose to be her Maid of Honor but told her no because she wasnt ok with them getting married(shes only 3 years younger than my BIL) and the other 2 live in German with their dad and no one but my BIL knows anything about them like their names, ages ect. I may not like her but I am always nice and respectful to her.

@mckennasmommy well at least you were being the better person. But I wouldn't let her give you any crap. Speak your mind. If she makes you feel a certain way tell her, if she's in your home and she does it tell her I get the F out. She doesn't hide her feelings towards you don't hide yours towards her.

@mommiesaremagical14 Right...I'm just waiting to see how this shit show wedding turns out. We have to bring our own chairs to sit in😂

@mckennasmommy lol!!! That's hilarious 😂😂

@mommiesaremagical14 This is the outfit she made...its cute but I'm not a fan of the lace top. But it's not my wedding. I told her she wont wear the sandals she bought because she doesnt like the thong between her toes. Told her dont be surprised if she throws a fit and wants to wear her barn boots or cowboy boots because it's all we can get her to wear.

@mckennasmommy ahh, yeah skirts cute butt the top just doesn't look like it goes with it.