There was a discussion on my fb this morning about how some ladies think their SO watching porn is…

I don’t mind it. As long as it’s not an everyday thing.

I dont mind as long as it doesn’t take away from me 😂

I mind it. For a number of reasons but that’s deff a No in our relationship

As long as it doesn't interfere in our lives, I don't really care.

I judge no other relationship at all, but it’s a no go for us. We prefer all sexual focus to be on each other, and I think porn creates a fantastical view of what sex is really about, a private and intimate physical connection between people who love each other.

I don’t mind it. But it depends on what kind. My husband was looking at stuff on Reddit (of all places) and to me there could be real people posting pictures of themselves on there which makes it easy to talk to people (if you wanted to) and it’s not like I don’t trust him but I just asked that he looks at videos on a porn website like everyone else 😂

I also found some on his phone after we had sex and I asked him if he was doing that before we had sex, which kind of weirded me out. Lol. But I’m fine with it. I watch it too. And unfortunately I don’t have the sex drive like I use to, so I understand doing your thing.

So do you guys not watch rated r movies because nowadays these rated r movies might as well be porn I guess I dont mine it because my SO used to work in strip clubs long before we met now that I wouldnt tolerate but his gf at the time didnt mind as long as he didnt sleep with any of them. Which is why I was wondering what some ladies consider cheating and not

I don’t see it as cheating. It’s part of human nature for both men and women and sometimes we watch it together

I consider it cheating. It is a no go in my relationship on both ends. It’s disrespectful and he shouldn’t be getting aroused by anyone but me.

Porn I could care less about. I watch it too. Sometimes we watch it together 🤷🏻‍♀️ Now if he was watching and chatting with live cam girls while he did his thing, then we would have a problem. If he hid porn from me or lied about it for any reason, we would have a problem. But as long as we are open and honest about it, I’m good.

Prepregnancy: My husband and I participate in sex 3 or 4 times a week. So during my time of the month which lasted 9 days I would tell him I was fine with him caring for himself, it isn't fair to him and neither of us want to have sex like that. So once a month he would. However, for those saying they don't want it to be porn from online consider other forms then....he has a special file of pictures of me and him together that I took some of and he did the others. He has a video that he took of us once and he loves it. They are very well secured and not on media/internet so I don't worry about it. And I know when he goes to care for himself that's what he is watching or looking at, I occasionally put on a different lingerie outfit and surprise him with a new picture for his collection. He loves it! We also have a "I need sex now" word between us. This word means I am desperate, it has been a while, and I am feeling the lack of intimacy right now (whether that be painful blue ball feeling- which women experience too, or just wanting physical connection). Know your partners LOVE languages. My hubby's #1 is Physical. Mine was gift giving to others but now is more physical and time sharing. Since we know that about each other we have a whole world of connecting. :)

No I don't mind at all. I think it would be different if our sex lives were decreasing or I found him on like meet to fuck sites, but if he's just on pornhub I don't see a problem. Just like he doesn't see a problem with me watching porn. I think each situation is unique though and it is most definitely a personal choice in a relationship.

@heilwife317 I really like this. Being adults about sexuality and what both of you need I also let me so take care of himself when I'm just not in the mood or on my period and he has videos and pictures of me to look at instead of other girls most of the time

My husbands not a fan but he does have a stash of pics of me that he loves

As long as I get what I want in bed I don’t care lol. My hubby hardly watches it anyway usually just when we take care of ourselves (I watch it too) or sometimes when I give him oral so it goes faster(usually when I’m a little gaggy). It used to bother me in the beginning of our relationship but we got close and we tried it when I wasn’t so insecure. I like that it gives us new ideas to try together too sometimes so it’s fun and helps keeps things exciting lol

It's a no for me.

If it’s not compulsive, if it’s not an addiction , if it’s not a transgressive, or hardcore pornography that hurts anyone and most important if your happy in your marriage and sex life then there’s nothing to worry about!

My husband has pictures of me. And uses pornhub on a semi regular basis. I personally do not mind. Mostly because he has a very high sex drive and during this pregnancy sex has been extremely painful. On top of that I've been put on pelvic rest twice. He has needs that at the moment I can't really help with unless it's oral. I've done for myself as well and we have watched together. I see no shame or disrespect if you are aware your partners needs aren't being met. If he hid it from me Itd be another story, but if we both are aware of the situation the by all means he can go for it.

He’s a grown man and I’m not one to snoop through his phone so I’m not sure what he watches as long as he doesn’t expect me to be a porn star in the bedroom😂. I did however get mad the other day when he asked me to go on his phone and check out eBay at stuff he was looking at and there was a porn site website open he tried telling me it was a pop up and he didn’t know it was there smh 🤦‍♀️ he obviously did because there wasn’t one but 2 sites open.x