Help! I am feeling super guilty. My husband sometimes works overnights. I hate sleeping by myself so…
Help! I am feeling super guilty. My husband sometimes works overnights. I hate sleeping by myself so my female roommate normally sleeps with me. Well tonight we got a little frisky. We totally went all the way. No I have NEVER cheated on him before now. No I have NEVER had sex with a girl before now. This wasn't supposed to lead to this. She was just trying to keep me company. Do I talk to him about it? I feel soooo guilty.

Rose ·
Yes
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He maybe okay with it🤔? Good luck.
sweetsap·
You should tell him
K·
Yes you need to tell him
Ashlee Cornmesser·
I told him last night and he was okay with it.
I still feel bad though
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Good job at least you got it off your chest.
Cams ·
Did you have to promise a threesome to make up for your transgression?
Ashlee Cornmesser·
LOL no
He told me that if he was in the same situation as I was with a guy, he probably would have done the same thing. We are both bi but lean more towards the oppsite gender. We were kind of talking about it after stuff happened last night and we both honestly kind of agreed that we felt sex with the same gender is cheating. I am not sure why we feel this way but we don't.
Ashlee Cornmesser·
@cams oh and she is completely lesbian. She has NOTHING to do with guys.
The EK 💁🏼♀️·
Does “all the way” with a girl mean penetration? Asking for a friend.
Ashlee Cornmesser·
@ek620 I didn't even realize I said that when I posted this. I just re read and I am wondering what I typed! Haha
But yes by both girls involved. Shirtless, pantless... Ect
No oral involved
Ashlee Cornmesser·
@linacorral1562 yes I did and feel a ton better.
Mommynes·
@ashlee.c, so you’ll be ok if he has sex with a guy?
Ashlee Cornmesser·
@mommynes as long as the guy doesn't have any stds and he didn't become a male whore. 😂😂😂
Mommynes·
@ashlee.c, is he obligated to tell you after?
So basically y’all decided last night that you’re going to have an open relationship?
And I’m not sure you answered @ @ek620, question. Her friends really wants to know
Ashlee Cornmesser·
@mommynes LOL I am not sure what I can put on here. I wouldn't force him to tell me but we have a very open relationship and I will always tell him so I am sure he will do the same. :)
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@ashlee.c No one's perfect thats nice you&your man can be open and comfortable in that sense. Need more open minded, honest couples in the world.☺️