@tessamariednvn, It really depends on if you could look past the cheating with time.
I personally haven’t been cheated on or done so to anyone but in my experience with my mother and her now ex husband.
He cheated on her and he was trying to move past it with her but she couldn’t let it go and would be passive aggressive about it. She would bring it up sometimes and make him feel like shit.

So what happens.... he cheats again :/
And now they are divorced ^^’

It’s really all just about if the mans willing to change and if you can establish trust again.

I personally already have trust issues and I struggle with depression so if I was cheated on, I don’t think I would stay or go back After time passed.

Unless it was a very long and meaningful relationship before that happen.

Not only that just recently I was diagnosed with PPD and an underlying case of depression. Which I don't feel he supports. So yes I now take an antidepressant daily. But I still have anger outburst like yesterday. Man o man I'm one fucked up girl. Grrr.....

So my story goes... We've had a bad relationship as it is, I found out some things after I had put first daughter... Fast forward I found out when I was about 4 months with our second daughter that he cheated on me let alone at that time we both were ready to go our separate ways just coparent our girls. Would that be considered cheating? I just can't seem to get past the cheating(if that is considered cheating) and he will not give me any affection unless he is getting some thing in return... And it seems to only bother me when I want his affection but he refuses to give it. I feel like if I leave him maybe he'll get the point, but then again if I leave and we don't get back together then in reality maybe I wasn't good enough for him to begin with...

We broke up for 3 years and then got back together and now we have 2 children together. I had a hard time trusting him after but we worked through it.

I stayed with him but left him a year later because although I never thought about it or questioned what he was doing, I couldn’t take him seriously.

My husband did while we were dating we broke up for a year and got back together and now we are married with a son so everything is going wonderfully, I trust him, he trusts me, I don’t make him feel bad for what he done in the past because living in the past only ruins a bright future, he just needed time to grow up but what teenaged boy doesn’t need time to grow up and when he decided he was ready we gave it another try, and got back together, and now we have a beautiful family together. 👪