I really need opinions.. I've been trying to think of cute ways to help my baby momma announce to friends and family she and her husband are having a baby. We've known for awhile now and I finally convinced her, like I said yesterday, to get outwardly excited and do fun stuff involving the baby. I don't want her to feel like because I'm carrying link that she's missing out on stuff. She deserves to be happy and experience things. So I've been thinking all night. And the one thing I know would be cute I was a little self conscious about but Im pretty sure I'm gonna get over it and do it for the three of them. What I was thinking was painting my belly a blue color you know for a boy. And them put her hand and his hand over link to shape a heart and take the picture. I am very self conscious of my stomach so I would like to know for sure if that would be cute. Because if it wouldn't be then I need to keep thinkin
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@happymommyxo thank you. I want this to be a great experience for everyone involved including my son and daughter. I got very lucky when entering into an adoption that this is how she wanted things. And I want this to be special for her.
@m.pollina1992, okay I wasn’t sure the whole background, that is beautiful! And you are a beautiful soul for what you are doing and how you are going through the process, you all are truly blessed and will share this journey and forever bond forever it’s a beautiful thing
And thank you all very much. As much as I seem like this hasn't been hard it very much is and the hardest part is yet to come. I do love link very much. And the support and opinions have brought me to tears at times.
@happymommyxo no she's Lincoln's adopted mom. But she asked me to be her surrogate after link isn't in diapers which I agreed to. I brought it up and she loves the idea. It was more about me getting out of my comfort zone so she can experience the fun parts of the pregnancy stage. She can't carry children and she's a fantastic person. I have not one I'll thought or word to say about them two. And I want her to enjoy everything. It's an open adoption and I was blessed that the way she wants to do things because of her family adoption experience I will be able to see link just not be his mom. But having all three of the kids have a relationship is just a complete and total blessing. I'm so thankful to her. And proud that shell be my son's mother. And it helps and brightens my day how happy and in love she is with the baby.
I think it's very cute. And if you do want to paint your belly the blue would hide anything, or you can just wear a cute white top and have them both wear blue.
I really admire what you are doing girl.. its such a selfless wonderful act and it really brings a tear to ky eye seeing the posts 😢 youre such a strong fantastic woman and i say that from the bottom of my heart girl, and i think that idea is so beautiful i love it
You are the surrogate? I personally think that’s a great idea to get them involved although depend on how they are bc obv I don’t personally know them you have to make sure they don’t feel akward in any way, for my gender reveal with my first me and my husband did that on our t shirts my hand was painted pink and his blue in the shape of a heart on the stomach part of the shirt. Also I would have an openly convo with her throw out some ideas and see what she’s thinking, how she feels and maybe she’ll come up with something that’s her style this way if she feels involved more the attachment will grow, I hope you post what you all decide I’m curious to see!
@m.pollina1992, completely makes sense and I def think you should! Modern family and it’s beautiful the respect and love everyone has with one another in this journey and it should def be celebrated bc it is a beautiful blessing