Okay I know it's been a while since I posted but i need an honest opinion. This is kind of a long post so please hang with me because I need the opinion of someone unbiased. So I will fully admit, I'm not a number one mom. I'm lazy as hell but I mean my child is happy and taking care of. I don't even believe I'm a good mom. So back story so you understand my situation. I had my daughter at the age of 19, I was terrified. Had no clue what to do. I also used to be terrified of vomiting(actually trying to get over it so I refuse to admit I'm scared anymore). At the time my husband and I lived with my mil, who is a mom of 7, my husband being the youngest. So she helped me out a lot more than she should have. Emma, despite spending 80% of her time with me, for some reason bonded with my mil better. We continued to live with my mil for 2 years. We finally got an apartment of our own in the same complex. Now I like to make my daughter happy. I hate seeing her cry so as long as it isn't dangerous I usually let her do it, I still try to teach her manners though. Anyway, she has been sleeping with my mil for a while now because it's more comfortable for everyone. My husband and I share a smaller bed and I'm a big woman, Emma likes to stretch and wiggle which is hard while being cramped between my husband and I. My mil has a decent sized bed consider she is a tiny woman but Emma has the room she want and sleep way better. So my question is. Does it make me a bad mom that I let my daughter say a lot at my mils still. I mean she'll literally hang from the doorknob wanting to go over there so it makes it hard to say no. I can't give everything she wants so I like to give her what I can. Oh and she absolutely will not sleep in her own bed. When my hubby and I get the money saved up we're going to buy a different mattress to see if that helps because she's never liked her crib. I assume it's the mattress. So anyway does that make me a bad mom?
Pic of my little wigglebutt, passed out, before I knew it, after a busy day.