I strongly believe that kids should be allowed to be kids.. that means playing in the mud.. running around outside.. drawing pictures on every available paper in the house.. playing with toys.. and so on.. and you can teach them manners and all that while they play and enjoy life.. cleaning up doesn't have to be a chore.. it can be a game, a race, whatever... sharing should be second nature, not something they are forced to do.. and rolling around outside in the dirt should be the choice of entertainment.. not a forced activity because they would rather play games on your phone.. now I don't mean that you should never let your child play games on your phone.. we live in a technological age after all.. but at least limit the screen time.. let them be kids a little while longer.. because before you know it they're forced to grow up and miserable for it.. and let your inner kid be free with them.. play with them.. be a part of their amazing little world.. try it, you'll see you'll feel much more relaxed and happy.. but anyway.. that's just my opinion