Hello ladies so it's been a while sense I've been on...how's everybody.... I've been having something on my mind that's really been bothering me out of the blue my best friend sense middle school has been blowing me off like straight up ignoring me.. I txt, call l,message threw facebook, snap chat and nothing when I see her face to face she acts like she doesn't want to talk to me and just stands there and it feel aquard.. but yet my little sister who rents a trailer from her says when she sees her she talks her ears off like she can't get her to shut up.. her excuse for not talking to me is that she's either busy or she's depressed and has a lot going on.. but yet I see her post photos and tag other friends in stuff on Facebook... I've hit the point were I'm done trying but she's literally my only friend and she's felt like a sister up to now so it's hard to just drop her as a friend is what to do
@kissesz30 that's what I'm saying we both went threw same thing doesn't make sense how she can't talk to me about it she's supposibly depressed about her divorce and I had one to this year
So, if she's talking your sister up, she's telling your sister something. Or your sister can find out -- unless it's your sister telling your friend something. Either way, that's a childish way to treat someone. So you have 2 options -- ignore her back or confront her face to face. Oh, and I would be asking your sister some serious questions. She might know more than she's telling.
Awkward* since* ... You definitely can’t force anyone to be your friend, definitely wouldn’t be a healthy friendship for you. Try to move on and not stress yourself... if she can’t be honest and tell you what the problem is then she’s not a good friend. Furthermore, if she’s depressed as she says she is then why wouldn’t she want to talk...? Just my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
@lovelily I've talked to my sister and she's told me same thing I keep hearing.. she also said she has told her about how I feel and my friend said to her she'd talk to me.. but I have yet to hear anything and keep getting ignored