So I feel like my SO doesn't really care for me like I think he does. I feel like he only feels something for me because I produced him a child. He never really wants to do anything with me and just me. Like he feels like we have to take the baby with us all the time but we really don't have to because we have family to watch her that really wouldn't mind. I just feel like the only reason our relationship is still existent is because of our daughter. Am I wrong for feeling like this or do u really have cause for concern?
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@qwiona did you bring it up to him? My husband had to say something to me because I didn't realize it was an issue. My parents never had date nights so the whole concept was new to me.
I'm the same way your SO is. I don't want to leave the kids and go places alone. I had them and I want us to raise them. It has nothing to do with not loving my husband, I just love all of them. He struggles with it as well but over time we are figuring out how to compromise a little. We had dinner alone for our Anniversary this year so that's a start.
@mct I try. All the time, but he just doesn't get it. He's like why can't we take her with us? And I tell him because we're gonna be focused on her the entire time but he still says so what