Hello! I just joined the group and i would love to make mommy friends. I’m a SAHM and last year i…

Ugh yes, was just discussing with my husband if we can switch rolls for a year after I have my 2nd son and breastfeed for a year, I'll pump another year but I miss working and plus the extra income would help us so much cause he gets only so much after child-support from his first bm. Also hi and welcome lol

@mother.of.2, If only it was possible to switch lol. How old is your first baby? And you’re currently prego? How many months are you? I have 2 & 1 year old girls. I only been a SAHM for 2 yrs and I’m just ready to work, it’s just hard being in a city with no family or friends. My hubby says it would be a waste me working since that income would go to daycare 🙄 hate that he’s right but i just miss being the independent person i once was. How long have you been SAHM?

@deltoral91, agree with hubby s daycare here is expensive as ever so if you want to work you’d have to find a career that pays well I only stopped staying home to go work for post office that way I could pay the 200 a week and still have more than enough money for other things here in Miami it’s very hard juggling a family and work

@deltoral91 omg same here I miss being independent and I've been a sahm for going on two years, started when they told me I was high risk with my first and he just turned one on June 5th also I'm 30 weeks will be 31 weeks on Thursday. But if not I'm hoping to put them in head start like I was when I was little and see how that goes. No one in my family or his are stable enough to take care of them except his sister but she works a ton and she's my babysitter for when I go into labor but after I give birth my husband is going straight there to pick him up and bring him to the hospital with us lol.

It only sounds like a good idea but I see the way my husband is and looses patience fast, not in a bad way but just doesn't try and figure out what he wants instead he just puts him in his playpen but I think us as mothers we just kinda get a hunch for their needs so I guesssss I can't blame him lol, but he agreed that my son is super attatched to me which is true but maybe he'll turn into a daddy's boy in a year, who knows lol

And I have been trying to look for a stay-at-home job and the ones that are best fit are Progressive and Amazon and Amazon gives you the stuff that you need like the headset and the other tools for the job but none of them hire in San Antonio so it's all in Austin or Houston but if I did go back to work it would be back at being a care provider and I worked from 8 to 3 sometimes 5

@takiahilk, that’s exactly what he says if I’m going to work it has to be a career or my own business but it’s just hard trying to figure out a career when you’re a full time mommy 😫

@deltoral91, you’d have to do something like a county job working 8-5 making at least 40-50,000 a year here to survive

@mother.of.2, awe kinda like me both my kids are from February, they are literally a year and 5 days apart lol. Oh man i kinda know that feeling on not having stable family tho. I hope headstart works out tho, it will help a lot. Having 2 babies can be very overwhelming 🙁 Yea my hubby is the same. He just turns on the tv and let’s them do WHATEVER they want, while he plays his video games 🙄 it’s annoying. Like we have stuff to do around the house, they could help with entertaining sometimes. Girl you guys have a boy, we have 2 girls and let me tell you they are soooo dramatic! They are def mamas girls 😒 I honestly didn’t even know about those jobs? What do you do for the company? Im going to have to look into it something is better than nothing. Isn’t there surveys you can take? I never tried them but at this point I’m kinda just looking for anything 😩

@deltoral91 me too, and for the provider company I got hired and started the same day, basically just go to their house to clean or cook or laundry most of the time they just want the company to talk lol but it's really easy.