@sierrapw23 damn girl! This is tough all around because Xanax is in the picture. That’s an issue. He cant be a pill popper and be in the military. He has to want better for himself and he need not disrespect you, your children, or your home again with this shit.

@queenmeeks, our kids are here and he had Xanax too!!! Not just weed. I definitely have a problem with that.

@queenmeeks, he hasn’t even talked to a recruiter yet. He’s supposed to do that with our nana. But I said there is no point unless you stay clean! And he agreed and didn’t smoke at all! And then he disappeared all night and gets back at 6 am high as fuck 😥 I didn’t know what to do so I told him to go sleep and I’d wake him up before the party but oh my gosh! I mean I have no problem with weed. Me and my SO smoke (we’ll not me at all now 😊) but when we don’t have the kids. But we never smoke in the house or keep it out of a jar. But with Grey here (my brother) he has our house smelling like it and I’m going around Lysol lemoning everything

@sierrapw23 I understand being disappointed! I would be as well. Doesn’t make any sense to want to do something like join the military and essentially tow the line of throwing it away. When is he supposed to ship out?

@juggalette, @queenmeeks, it’s easy to kick him out I just don’t understand why he would do this when this is the end of a whole clean month with us and he was helping and so great with the kids and everything. He is supposed to go live with our nana tomorrow. So I’m like out of all days!? Why!? So I’m just taking deep breaths. He is 18 btw. He’s my baby brother so I’m just disappointed in him. And that he felt he had to lie.

Well you need to get your brother out of your home. Easier said than done I know, but he clearly has no respect for your home or anyone that resides in it. If he was serious about joining the military, he wouldn’t be slipping up. Better hope he cleans up before he ships out or he’s gonna get the boot before he even starts day zero.