In need of some advice,
Long story short I hate living at my boyfriends parents house. I’m like so depressed here. I have no privacy his mom is always trying to tell me what to do and how to do it and his brother and his family that lives here is driving me insane. LA rent is no joke, we have a newborn and a 5 year old and it’s tough. I want to tell him how I want to move back to another city where rent is way cheaper and we could afford more stuff, but I’ve brought it up before and it’s always an argument.. so I do you ladies think I should give him an ultimatum? Like, let’s gtfo or I’m getting tfo lol? Idk I cant live like this anymore
I couldn't live with my sister either. I had to move in with my dad for a bit. Now I live around the seattle area and rent is expensive but I love it and will keep doing it because it is 2500ish miles away from my family and I dont like their drama
@essemmxo for my oldest it was. But he can do more and have more freedom here than in San Francisco
@nessaa, going to try the ultimatum hopefully he doesn’t get all upset...let’s see where it goes
@nessaa, ugh thank you it’s so hard because his parents promised to build an extra bedroom but it’s been more than a year and every time we ask what’s going on, we get a “we don’t know” . Literally I’m like the maid here no one does shit or buys anything but they’re quick to use my stuff and eat the food I buy. I’m so fed up😭
@bsandra, his grandma lives there! If I could even get him to talk about it 🙄 but he gets so worked up about it it’s annoying
@momof2prince, San Fransisco is wayyyy more expensive and so crowded 😭 I don’t blame ya , was the move hard ?
@ymoreno16, I’m totally looking near San Bernardino /: it’s just talking to him about it is so hard
Oregon has cheap rent.... this past summer there was a lot of ppl moving from different states, specially Cali.
Definitely San Bernardino area even cheaper high desert area Hesperia just seen a 3 bedroom for 980.
Barstow one bedroom $575. I couldn't even if it meant me leaving him with his family. I'd run out of a patience asking him. Good luck to you.