😭the first thing Garrus does this morning is crawl to Sissys room looking for her😭😭😭 I miss her…

Were she go?

@autism.mommy to her dads in NC for the summer. This will be the longest she's been away from me

@bethann87 Sounds hard. Baby baby does ok

@autism.mommy I'm sorry I didn't understand that second part, but thank you I know I'm not the only person in the world who deals with visitation and I'm just whining and I still have the little one Garrus here but I'm feeling empty today

@bethann87 Sorry Ment to say hope the baby will be ok she's away.

@autism.mommy I totally get that. Like it's good he wants to be involved but sucks I have to give her up for the summer but I opted giving him the summer so she'd only have to visit once a month during the school year cause going every other weekend had her acting up in school whenevershe got back

@bethann87 I understand. That's great he's involved also. I wish the boy's dad was involved. He wants them for day and stuff and I tolled him absolutely not. I don't trust any of his friend's only family I trust around them is his grandparents... Last thing I need is him being dumb and somthing happens to them. I might not get them back knowing his mom she will try n keep them away from me. She's tried multiple times with my 5 yr old as baby. Failed everytime. She's not aloud around them at all. I have full physical custody of them both.

@autism.mommy yeah when she went to visit for thanksgiving he kept her and filed an emergency custody order but it was unfounded and not in her custodial state cause he did it in nc and we're in wv. So i got her back after filing my own emergency custody order and that was all brought on while she was at her grandma's (his mom) and i know she'll be visiting her this summer so I'm super anxious about that. I don't understand why grandmothers feel the need to get so involved it only hurts the relationship between the parents further (except in serious situations)

@bethann87 That's great it was unfounded... And his mom only wanted our son cuz she gave their dad when he was 3yrs old to her parents.... Sorry, my child not your second chance to be a mommy. She kept trying to get me to drink and smoke week prior to her trying to get custody but she failed. And figured making a fake CYS report would help. Witch was unfounded cuz they did on spot drug test witch I passed but her son failed.. Than she tried saying i had no job but was on maturnity leave my oldest was 2 week's at that time.

@autism.mommy that's ridiculous I'm happy it all got sorted and you're full custodian

@bethann87 Thanks, and me too! He's still in denial I have Full Physical Custody but I don't care. I know what's true n what's not if he wanna be a fool and not be civil than I won't talk to him.

@autism.mommy exactly gotta do what's best for the kids and yourself which doesn't include his stress!!

@bethann87 Yep, that's how I was looking at it also... Don't care about his feelings or what he thinks right or not cuz he can't make good dessision at all.