Rant I’ve had enough of my fiancé’s bff! All week he’s just been showing up at our house, literally…
Rant
I’ve had enough of my fiancé’s bff! All week he’s just been showing up at our house, literally the second my fiancé walks in the door. AND HE’S SICK W/A COLD! I’ve been busy cleaning the crap out of my house, preparing for family to come this weekend for my shower and have my baby’s stuff everywhere trying to get organized. My fiancé has been amazing about letting him know it’s not ok to show up sick and uninvited but the way his friend is acting makes me want to hit him upside the head. The guy likes to go jogging in our neighborhood and will leave his gross/sweaty shirts laying around the house and forgets to take them home with him. Convenient because he knows I’ll wash them. Anyway, he threw a fit tonight making it seem like I’m being unreasonable about him being here this weekend and doesn’t seem to be able to wrap his head around the fact that my family is driving in from 11 hours away. Family I never get to see. So I finally got fed up, told him to take his attitude and go. Oh I also told him that his attitude and short fuse is also why he hasn’t had a girlfriend or a date in over 2 years and that he needs to go fix those issues instead of throwing a fit because I don’t want him at my house every night making a mess and especially while being sick. That’s just so disrespectful to me. He’s 30 years old and can go find his own girlfriend to clean up after him.
deleted-user·
That's so annoying!! Glad you spoke up.
Do not get a cold while preg...it knocks you out. I'm still trying to get over mine.
Lindsay·
Right? I’ve made it through my entire pregnancy without getting sick and even while I worked the first 24 weeks as a caregiver for an elderly man! Now that I’m at the end of pregnancy there’s a bug going around and several of my friends have respected me and my home enough to not come over until they’ve felt better. Two of my fiancé’s coworkers have been in the hospital with pneumonia for a week! You’d think his bff would understand. But no. Ugh. I swear some frat boys NEVER grow up. ??♀️ Like we are about to have a newborn baby living here so it’s time the hangout finds a new venue!
Btw I hope you feel better soon love! ??
deleted-user·
Yeah I’d have lit him up, too. I don’t want to be sick. Being pregnant is hard enough without being sick! And hell yeah stop doing that man child’s laundry. Bag that up all sweaty in a grocery bag and hand it back to him. You’re not his mom. ?
deleted-user·
I would be sooooo mad!! You totally did the right thing. Maybe it will get through his head this time
deleted-user·
That sounds so annoying!! And I agree with pp I would throw it in a grocery bag and give it right back!
deleted-user·
Go girl sounds like the kick up the arse he needed! And stop washing his clothes just put them in a plastic bag out the way somewhere you don’t need that extra work
deleted-user·
Good for you!!!! He needed a good spazzing out on! Sometimes you have remind them of who's the boss! My husband always has friends over. ALWAYS! They are like our family but lately I hate them. They have all taken a turn in the rage of my pregnancy hormones and they know it. They have started staying away out of fear lol. I over heard them in the garage a few weeks ago telling my husband he has to come in and get the beers because they are afraid what kind of mood I'm in. One minute I'm baking cookies and laughing with them the other I'm going off because they used all the hand soap in the bathroom and didn't bother to tell me. I can admit that I do spaz over the small things but I can't help it right now.