You kno the amount of hateful comments I have seen on this app in just the last month is sickening.…

I love this 😊 I have anxiety and depression and my house isn't always clean like some people have theirs and some days all I can manage to do is feed my son and attempt to take care of myself best I can while the dishes pile up in the sink and the laundry piles up in the bathroom. I do feel like a fail at being a mom a lot and it doesn't help my mentality... I'm afraid sometimes to post pictures on here because of all the flaws that could be pointed out. No one knows what a person goes through during the day or is dealing with at the current time and cleaning is the very last thing they are concerned with because other things are taking up more of their attention at the time. It's sad how a lot of women judge like they are perfect when they aren't. They've had bad days too but choose to judge because it makes them feel better about themselves.

I’ve never seen anyone on this app tell someone else they are a bad mom.

@ek620 I have, plenty of times. Nothing recently as I've been trying harder to stay away from the drama but I have on here and my other mom app I used to have.

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma Excatly. Like my house is far from perfect. Some weeks r good week and I can vaccum 1 a day and mop every 2 days and have the dishes done every day and laundry caught up. Others I feel like I'm drowning just to keep up with the laundry and dishes. My daughter has never been a good sleeper and we finally found a groove for now where she is only waking up 3 times a night instead of 5 plus. So having the energy to do much of anything was hard. No mother is perfect and we all try our best and are always our worst critics we don't need other ladies tearing us down any more. We need to be building each other up. Ur amazing momma and ur far from a failure. U keep doing ur best 😙💕

I agree, I've never put down another mother for anything. We all know it's wrong including those who do it.

@ek620 I was told I was a bad mom and my kids should be taken away just because I said something about wanting to go on a weekend vacation with my boyfriend to new orleans to drink and relax after I was done with this pregnancy.

@lillyb Thank you ❤ When I have energy I can clean the entire apartment in a couple hours and cook dinner but my 2 year old takes up a lot of my energy and I'm usually left feeling drained...

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma we all deserve some time to breath and relax. So u go away for a weknd and have a few drinks. Ur kids r being taken care of and ull come back relaxed and less stressed. Let's all face it we love our children but we all need a break. Do we worry and miss our children the second we leave? Yes. Do we feel guilty as soon as we leave? Yes. But we need it. There is nothing wrong with it. U go and relax and come back refreshed ♡ screw the haters they r just jealous that they aren't going on vacation 😉

This 💗💗💗

@ek620 I have a lot and it's very sad @mommiesaremagical14 it's sad all the drama that is around

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma kids take a lot out of u and some days r great days and u feel like super mom and get it all done and other days it's a struggle just to make it thru the day and that's okay. That's real and doesn't mean ur any less of a great mom

@lillyb it is, and it's inevitable you can preach everything everyday and people are going to continue the constant put-downs and name calling insulting and finger-pointing

@mommiesaremagical14 it's so immature and I just don't get it honestly

@lillyb I think it's just human nature to be ignorant and self-righteous. Especially nowadays social media is pressuring everybody to be a certain way and everybody falls for it and they think everybody has to be that way and if they're not then it's okay to say and do the things they say and do to them. Everything is a competition everything has to be compared everybody has to be better than everybody else. Pretty pathetic if you ask me but it is the way it is. It's always going to be here and you have to find a way to live around it because it's never going to go away.

Not that I'm saying everybody is!!! I'm not pointing any fingers ladies I swear I love you all!!! 💖💖💖

@ek620, I was called a bad mom today and told I should stop breeding it definitely happens

It’s true I very rarely clean just because I feel like I never get a chance to just sit back and relax. My daughter hardly lets me put her down some days I don’t get to shower let alone put clothing on . I also struggled with depression and some days my depression comes back and is really hard on me so yep I’m a bad mom for making sure my child’s good and idc about the house being clean as long as my kids are good then I’m good I’ll get the my well being and being a good housewife when I feel up to it

@nlock ur doing amazing ur daughter is well taken care of and that's all the matters. House work will always be there but ur daughter will only be young once enjoy it and make sure she is taken care of :)

@lillyb, that’s all I try and do . The negativity only makes things worse for people Nd the people that are being negative I’m sure they wouldn’t appreciate someone being like that with them

@nlock excatly ur doing what u can do and u already feel like a failure some days even tho ur far from it u don't need others making u feel worse and as u said they wouldn't like it if someone tore then down. We need to lift each other up as women. Being a mother is hard enough.

@lillyb, exactly. Like I was taught if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all. I try my hardest to always make sure I encourage moms cause I would hate for a mom to feel like she is doing bad. It’s hard enough while beating yourself down then to have another mother know somewhat of your struggle and kick you down even more

@nlock same here. Nothing nice to say then move on.

I think the amount of people actually bashing is far less than these posts make it out to be. Is there one rude person in a bunch- always. However, there are far more women who will jump on the “I’m being bashed” train when in fact there is no bashing. Support comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. Sometimes support is telling you: “you’re doing something wrong, you could kill your kid.” That’s not bashing. Sometimes support can be: “personally I would do it this way...” that’s not bashing.

Simply not liking someone’s comment or agreeing with it doesn’t make it negative. Queue the purple crayon image....

@laniejay I'm not saying that there is a lot of people doing it just that I've seen a lot lately. I'm not saying when a child is in danger not to speak up or saying u wouldn't do it that way is bashing. I'm talking about the women being down right nasty and telling a mother she is a bad mother for her choice of doing something that isn't hurting the child at all. Or bashing for the mess in the background of a smiling child's photo.

Best thing I have seen on this app since I have been on here 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

2 cents from this user: I feel like a lot posters put things up to be validated by other moms. Sometimes you just gotta make your posts and comments and stand behind them. Some people won't like what you have to say, and sometimes no one will like what you say, you gotta make posts with this in mind and mentally prepare for the harsh/disrespectful disagreements.

I've seen plenty posts where commenters were rude for no reason, and I go "omg, there was no need for that." A "support group" on the internet or packaged as an app is an illusion, seriously. People get bold when their identities are "safe." If you really need some support, talk to the people in your life, or a professional.

No one is perfect, that doesn't stop them from pretending though, lol. Moms putting down other moms because their house was dirty in a pic is low. I mean, I always feel like, if it bothers you that much, please go and clean it. If you have no intention of being a part of the solution, don't contribute to the problem