Sooo mu new born wants to be held in my arms all the time he doesn’t like for moms swings at all .…

Your instincts are correct. Cuddle that baby anytime baby wants. Read up on the 4th trimester. Babies weren’t meant to be born as grown adults and to behave as such. They need touch, comfort, soothing, love.

I was going to say everything @laniejay, said. You’re all your baby knows, hold him tight and enjoy it as much as you can.

@laniejay, agreed my daughter was the same way. Especially first 3 months. Their pediatrician explained how first 3 month babies need all the touch comfort because they are adopting to this world. I just hate the fact that they go u will regret it will get used to been held and u wont be able to put him down . Ok fine my problem not my first child i will be holding him not u 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@mariapb, especially how fast they grow up . He is two weeks and already outgrown his newborn clothes like let me be and enjoy my baby that i been waiting for 39 weeks

You can't "spoil" babies. However if you need to get stuff done then I suggest investing in a baby carrier :)

@nerdymommyplus2, yeah i was planning on it

@salogogo

It seriously makes life so much easier. My daughter loved being held so I used a Moby. Now she's older I put her in the lillebaby. Mainly while hiking.

I will aslo say with my oldest I picked her up EVERYtime she cried. Everyone was like , she'll be so spoiled, you'll always have to hold her blah blah blah. Especially my MIL. But now she sees what I was talking about even as a toddler she was super independent. So trust your instincts mama 🗣️

@nerdymommyplus2, yeah totally my daughter is the same way very independent since she started to crawl there was no stopping her . I will look at the moby thanks

Baby wearing saves sanity