I'm miserable in my own house...I love my stepson and have done everything in my power for him to have a good life but I am so done with his behavior. He doesn't listen to me at all, he is so mean to his brother, he deliberately destroys stuff in his room, he takes food and hids the rappers in the A.C. vent. If you ask him why he did something he says "I don't want to ....". Oh and if we bring any of this up to his mom, she thinks it either funny or thinks we are trying to make an excuse to why she "can't" see him. Everyday it's something and I'm to the point where I don't even want to be here. His dad is at work all day and disciplines him when he's around but nothing seems to work with him anymore. He is going to start to go to a psychologist to help with his behavior and anger. But once again I'm stepping up and doing everything I can for him and it seems like it's never enough.