I figured with my man being across seas for a job that being back at my mothers was a healthy choice…

I figured with my man being across seas for a job that being back at my mothers was a healthy choice for the time being. I still work full time & im hardly actually there. I’m really regretting it all, me and my spouse hardly have time to talk we get in maybe 30 or so minutes a day if that. My mom has honestly let her house go and wants me to be her personal slave on my off days and clean her house when I’m not responsible for any of the messes made(I pay some of her rent & phone bill for 5 of our phones).Her pets just do what ever, cat pissed on the couch so the whole living room smells like cat pee. I’m literally miserable & just venting , I plan on going out tomorrow to find something more suitable and fitting for me and my 3 girls but moving and affording it on my own for a little will be almost impossible😭. He doesn’t come home until March and I’m just really sad that’s all.