I think my husband is cheating on me 😔he’s been acting really different. There are times he doesnt text back or answer his phone. He’ll block me or turn off his phone. Then he’s gone for hours at a time and he doesn’t want me to go anywhere with him. Today he changed my name in his phone and deleted a whole bunch of stuff.
@adriannajme, I have a feeling he is. I’m all too familiar with the feeling I’m having.
Trust your instincts like previous comment said. Very odd behavior for that to be your significant other. I would bring it up with him before things go any further.
@jstory316, I have and he is accusing me of cheating. I’m pregnant I’m not going to go around a whore around. I’m very self conscious about my body while pregnant and I don’t go around showing off my body in tight clothes. I wear lose fitting clothes. I do my hair and make up but I don’t dress up. I wear pants and a teeshirt all time. Plus I don’t go anywhere or have any friends.
@prettygirlrock1214 I was just thinking that. Lots of red flags. @juliam27 hopefully he isn't but he's definitely got suspicious behavior.
@prettygirlrock1214, I have no reason to cheat or talk to other guys. When we got together I cut off all my guy friends and never talked to them since we have been together. I have no reason to talk to guys. I literally have 2 girl friends and I hardly talk to them because he doesn’t like them and I can go days without talking to my family because of him.
@rikki., he just accused me of hiding stuff and acting weird I told him I’m not acting weird or hiding anything. He can go through my phone and he won’t find a thing. I don’t delete stuff either so he can check everything
@juliam27 oh I wasn't implying that you are. Just it's a sign that he is the one guilty of what hes accusing you of
@prettygirlrock1214, I know. I’m just saying I pretty much have to cut people off because he doesn’t believe me
Smh. This is something you should investigate. I'm in the same boat.
I really hope he’s not cheating on you but while reading this, I think he is.. too many red flags to leave this alone. And he’s stupid to think you’re doing something but it’s only to sway the blame onto you. Girl, get your friends back, neverrr stop being friends because your “husband” is insecure with himself to not let you have friends of the opposite sex. I said it in quotations because he doesn’t even seem like a good one. And if he is cheating, get your ducks in a row and leave
@scx, it just sucks because I don’t understand what I did to deserve this and while pregnant. It just hurts so much. I’ve been having to deal a lot with this pregnancy and it just keeps piling up
Yes , that's a red flag. To be honest you don't really want to go through the phone it will hurt you more, just watch his moves and actions more. That is what I did. And boom on day I snapped and brought up my concerns, he can no longer even get a foot rub from me.
@juliam27, oh I understand completely. My pregnancy was rough especially since me and my boyfriend weren’t getting along :/ but you’re strong. And you didn’t do anything wrong. It wasn’t anything that YOU did. It’s nothing to do with you, just his own insecurities and he thinks finding it in another woman will make him feel better but it’s gonna keep happening. Don’t stay with him if he is..
I have a feeling my SO has been planning this because my baby is only 5 months . And he's speaking to the women in Spanish saying te'amo. Feels painful. I hope we both can get through this mommas. Let's focus on the joy of our children.
I think him blocking you says everything you need to know. Personal experience being the one cheating on someone (my ex cheated on me so I was in a “eye for an eye” mentality @ 21/22) blocking is your go to when you need to have alone time with someone else & you don’t want them to see someone blowing up your phone or suspect that you are with someone else. I use to also ignore messages & not answer my phone, turning off my phone was easy too & blame it on low battery. So I would say you must over analyze the shit out of him, stare him down when he gets home, see his new patterns, keep your ears open when he’s on the phone. & if he is, what will you do? Think about what you will do if you find out its true & that will also play a big part in how you are gonna go about the situation.
Yes, the outcome is up to you momma. Play your cards smart and allow him to support your child. Continue to be you. cry when Noone is looking, stay strong and find a hobby you enjoy. Even though you have insecurities I don't see you out in the streets looking for validation from a man so your automatically winning. He will see when this women isn't enough that he just looks stupid and more insecure.
This is know from experience momma. I'm glad that I could help and that I'm not alone, and your not alone either.
Your gut is never wrong. If he’s not cheating then he’s up to something! I’m so sorry
Hun you need to move on. He is abusive and cheating on you. You're worth so much more.
@matajiregina, he deleted stuff anyways cause he knows I’ll go through it. He stayed up all night on his phone and would walk out and stay outside for hours then come in and be back on his phone
@scx, I just recently lost my great grandma and it’s been really hard on me especially because I was there when it all happened and he knows that. Yet he still treats me like I’m doing everything wrong
@amberspringer, that’s what keeps going through my mind. If he’s not cheating then he’s already tying to talk to someone else
@juliam27, technically that’s cheating if he’s trying. Talking can be just as bad
Oh man, I cannot say much but be strong mommas. Heart breaks are the worst.
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@juliam27, oh I understand completely. My pregnancy was rough especially since me and my boyfriend weren’t getting along :/ but you’re strong. And you didn’t do anything wrong. It wasn’t anything that YOU did. It’s nothing to do with you, just his own insecurities and he thinks finding it in another woman will make him feel better but it’s gonna keep happening. Don’t stay with him if he is..
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I think him blocking you says everything you need to know. Personal experience being the one cheating on someone (my ex cheated on me so I was in a “eye for an eye” mentality @ 21/22) blocking is your go to when you need to have alone time with someone else & you don’t want them to see someone blowing up your phone or suspect that you are with someone else. I use to also ignore messages & not answer my phone, turning off my phone was easy too & blame it on low battery. So I would say you must over analyze the shit out of him, stare him down when he gets home, see his new patterns, keep your ears open when he’s on the phone. & if he is, what will you do? Think about what you will do if you find out its true & that will also play a big part in how you are gonna go about the situation.