So turns out I have no say so in anything for my sons first birthday, everything I recommend I get a no from my husband…

That’s your son too u should have a say In everything

@marielovely thank you! Ugh I'm just super annoyed rn.

Ummm you carried him in your belly. You should have most the say. Girl I would put my foot down. Your husband has lost his mind 😒😒😒😒😒😒

@momofboth I told him that and he's like that's what you said before and now you're a SAHM and I'm like, "bitch lemme see how you're going to pay for child care with your $240 every two weeks havin ass" I'm doing us a favor, don't you think I wanna work, Ive been Working my whole life and you've only worked when it was convienent for you, I'll bring home triple what you bring home in 2weeks but your bitchass has no patience with Jesiah let alone a new-born. Ugh he's such a dumbass but tomorrow will be a different story, I just can't believe he has the nerve! 😤😤😤

@mother.of.2 some men I tell ya , my husband doesn't put me down like that. He's okay with me staying at home . I'm about to go to school soon tho .

@momofboth lucky, I'm trying to look for a stay at home job for the mean time cause I can not deal anymore. And don't want to leave my kids with anyone, my mom, Mil, and daycares are so unstable, I trust no one. At least til 3 then I can put them in pre k.

@mother.of.2 I feel ya .

@momofboth I'm kinda glad I waited to have kids and this is my last so after this Ima stay continueing to work. And he use to be supportive til I started stressing more over money, I never have before because I always had from myself working. And being at home is driving me nuts. It has it's pros and cons lol

@mother.of.2 oh I understand I used to work before I had kids but my husband deploys so I want to be away from my kids.

I don’t understand what you being a SAHM has to do with helping plan the party?! Y’all can set a budget and go from there.

My husband on the other hand just let me do all the planning, he just says “okay when’s the party and what time” 😂

I’m also a SAHM, so that’s why I don’t understand why you can’t do any planning for it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Maybe he’ll come around!

@mvbreaux he just did but he's so f****** stupid and it drives me crazy because I literally just talked to his sister about it because his sister is going to pay for the cake and then tries to turn it around like he never said anything so then I'm looking like the bad person I really don't even want to do anything anymore I kind of just want to buy him a cake and just be here at the house