You can't say anything on this app without somebody thinking they're the safety police or a damn…

Yes moms know their babies best and can only share their experience!! Great post:)

Seriously like wtf.. it be crazy on here ppl need to mind their own Business.. n raise their kids how ever the hell they want tf...n stop acting like moms of the year n safety police n all that extra dumb shit...

@jessicanlos2015 right!!!! Like damn what's the point of the app if you can't offer what worked for you. Not everybody is by the book and not every kid needs every safety precaution.

@idontwant2bapie I'm sorry, how does any of this make MY life easier? It's never been about making an unsafe choice... My kids have good receptors of knowing when their airways were blocked so suffocation has never been an issue for them. So I just offered my experience for those who may have the same situation. I'd rather have bumpers than my kid hurting themselves getting stuck in the rails. That is all.....I'm really not even sure how you guys think I'm the one asking for advice.

@crai like my post said, you don't have to agree. You just simply go on about your business and what works for YOU.

@newlywedmama21 I too was worried about my future baby getting stuck in the rails. So I am doing the in between which was approved by our soon to be pediatrician and my OB. We are using the mesh liner that goes through the rails. It doesn't stick out and if for some reason baby gets their face over there they can still breath.

But right on for you doing what works for you. Every parent is different. I mean I am struggling before baby gets here to make it clear to my MIL that Just because her kids "managed to survive" as she says doesn't mean I want her doing some of the things she did to my son. We are all different and we have to be comfortable with what type of parenting we are using and what rules we think are important.

@heilwife317 exactly!! That's all I was trying to say....I didn't say oh bumpers are the best thing out there and you neeeed bumpers... I just said...I've never had an issue. But oh well... I won't offer my help when asked anymore

@idontwant2bapie okay hunny 🤦

@newlywedmama21 it's ok someone tore me a new one when I said I talked to my OB and they said I shouldn't use abreva when pregnant. The lady attacked me about 3 different OBs she has talked to, how mine is wrong, and how I could spread the disease to my baby's genital area and about kissing the baby. She then said well maybe your OB is being overly laid back since you haven't had the baby yet but that is wrong. I was like dude...chill. I am sticking with what my OB says over a random forum lady any day AND my baby isn't born yet so obviously you are overreacting. Then I realized it was going to fuel more hate so I deleted the entire post and blocked the very rude lady.

@idontwant2bapie so why are you still talking to me on my post? Don't think I tagged you.....bye Felicia

@heilwife317 yeah I haven't blocked many people but I guess I have to start....it's just aggravating...like let it go!

@idontwant2bapie yeah u were wrong....because you assumed someone wanted to "debate" with you. I didn't and don't. Never asked for one. I wasn't even talking to you....you came to me on someone else's post and now have a problem being properly dismissed. Let me make it clear.....I did not ask you any questions and I was not talking to you and still don't want to. So let it be.

Some of y'all just wanna fight...jeez. I hope y'all find some happiness. It does a mind and body good!

I've never understood why someome informing others of a safety hazard is looked at like trying to be perfect or parent of the year. When I've been corrected on something for my child I normally thank the person and research it and ask her pediatrician. I've always felt like people were just looking out for me and my baby. I live by the motto know better do better. I don't know everything and appreciate when someone shares their knowledge.

@unagie sure, when you aren't aware of the issues of course. I'm perfectly aware, but again, it didnt affect my children. They needed bumpers because they would get stuck or bump their head....never said it was the best option It just worked for me...ppl took it upon themselves to assume I didn't know the risks. I just know my children, what their strengths are, like any good parent should and offered what I had success with. never forced anyone to agree or got mad because it didn't work for someone else. It's when you take it upon yourself to "inform" someone of something that causes a problem because you assume they don't already know. We know what they say about assuming....

@newlywedmama21 oh I misunderstood then I thought you meant just being informed in general got you irritated. My bad.

@unagie oh no worries, I'm not opposed to help, it's the assuming part and then trying to make it seem like somebody's way is the best way and everything else is bad....that's what bothers me. Especially when I didn't ask. It's like the feeding controversy... personally I breastfeed til I can't any more and then give formula but ppl are like formula is sooo bad or breastfeeding is gross blah blah blah.....I think fed is best and I will never knock any woman for which way they feed their baby...when it's just those two options.