I'm really debating on whether or not I should have a baby shower. I didn't have one with my first mostly because I wasn't in the same state as my family and my husband's family is awful and don't like me because I'm Hispanic. But now it doesn't seem as special since we are having another girl and no one ever comes to anything I plan anyways. So it just has me kind of down and out! I mean a few family members may come, but it's not more than 3. And I don't really have any friends so I don't see a point.