Honestly my husband makes me depressed about this pregnancy and so far has been nothing but crabby…
Honestly my husband makes me depressed about this pregnancy and so far has been nothing but crabby to me. He's not acting very happy about it and when he told his mom there was no happiness to his voice he just told her "just want to let you know we are expecting baby #2. Yeah well we weren't really trying it was just whatever. Kind of like let's see what happens and it happened. I hope it's a girl so we can be done." I just wanted to cry it almost makes me wish we weren't if I knew this is how he'd respond to a positive test. 😞
Amber·
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Did u say anything to him? That would have hurt me too 😢😢
Aylenrose·
@tattooedwho1 I've told him before he doesn't seem to happy and he just gets crabby and tells me to stop saying he isn't happy. I told maybe we shouldnt have tried then and he told me "Too late. If you get an abortion the couple people you told won't be to happy that you got rid of it." That just makes me sad to.
Amber·
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Maybe he's just nervous about the new baby and more responsibly but either way I'm sorry 😓😓 he should be more supportive of you!!
Sarah·
I understand how you feel. Between us this baby makes 5 and was definitely not planned. My fiancé was so upset when I told him. He’s really trying at this point to accept it but anytime the others are acting up he gets all pissy and says “and you want to try this with 5 🙄” basically making me feel like shit and this was all my idea/fault
Aylenrose·
@tattooedwho1 maybe but now he's making me not very excited about this pregnancy at all to the point that I wish it didn't happen and it sucks because I was excited to start trying. 😭
Aylenrose·
@julyfirefly23 that's exactly how I feel 😞 he says are you sure you can handle 2 all by yourself? You won't get any time to yourself at all. Now I'm scared to have 2 and not be able to handle it. I'm just starting off this pregnancy in a very depressed state. 😞
Jen·
Try giving him some time, im sure he will come around. Rob wasn't too thrilled about a fifth unplanned baby on his end (3rd for me) but we talked it out.. Started with and argument of course Lol its stressful for sure and for at least until I was showing did I feel kind of alone 😔 but given some time things were ok and I can tell you now he is very happy we kept him and I actually ended up enjoying the pregnancy also.. Its a whole life change maybe hes just worried and will get over it with some time. Im sure it will all work out just stay positive and take into account he is a sensitive male Lol ❤️❤️ hope u start feeling Better soon, I been there.. know your not alone
Aylenrose·
@boymom_ I talked to him again yesterday night about what I was feeling and he said he swears hes happy and excited about it but he was really tired when he was talking to his mom that he can see how it came out that way. I guess my emotions are in full swing this time around and I am hoping I'll enjoy this pregnancy.
Jen·
@aylenrose, aw good im glad to Hear! Chin up! 😉❤️