Hi I am kasey. I am 22 weeks pregnant with a girl. I live in Carson city NV. Going through a little…

Hope it all gets better congrats on your blessing❤

Thank you.

Was he seeing her before?

No he just resent my started seeing her about a month ago. He hasn’t even slept with her yet. I told him I wanted to work things out with him but he hadn’t gotten around to talking to her yet. Their schedules don’t match and they hardly see eachother as it is... but yet she was out last night where I was at and found out about me but I have no idea who she is.

* recently

That was a typo

And he won’t even tell me strait up

If he is going to cut it off with her. It is making me sick to my stomach.

Please don’t go back with him; if he decides to “cut things off” with her. You deserve so much better than a guy who wants to leave his pregnant girlfriend for someone else.

And told him I wanted to hang out last night and he said he still needed to talk to her. I don’t know if that is a good thing because he is being loyal but at the same time he is choosing to be loyal to her that he is not even serious with over the women who has his baby in him...

I am the one who pushed him away in my first trimester when I was feeling confused about our relationship.

It’s a sick feeling that is causing me pain and cry spells. I am usually a happy upbeat outgoing person. Just feeling really hurt.

I am in love with him too.

And he didn’t leave me for her. We were split for a couple months before he starting seeing her. I just don’t know why he is having a hard time figuring out what to do. He is not in love with her. I think he is just afraid to hurt her feelings. He is a total people pleaser and super passive. He will do what other people want instead of thinking about what he wants. So I am afraid he is going to leave it up to her because I am the one who pushed him out to begin with. 😢

But I know where his heart is. You can’t please everyone... he had a hard time with that one. He is actually a total sweet heart.

I'm sorry but I have to be blunt... if he was such a people pleaser he would try to focus on his family if not you at least his unborn child. Who has time to think about dating when there is a baby on the way. Even if you guys were not together you were in a relationship that ended not to long ago and he's already showing loyalty or preference to this new chick? Something is not adding up. No matter how much of a people pleaser you are no one can force you to do something you don't want to do. I know it's hard for you but try to focus on your baby and being the best mom you can be. If you are meant to be together things will fall into place and try to enjoy ur pregnancy as best u can this is a special time in ur life. Even if the situation is not ideal make the best of it.

@kcnicholep89, he just doesn’t seem like a good guy to me. My boyfriend and I broke up in the beginning of my pregnancy as well but I knew where his heart is/was and that was with me. We broke up for a month and he didn’t go off talking to another girl. Why? Because MINE is an actual sweetheart and if yours went off talking to another girl pretty quickly it just shows he doesn’t care for you nearly as much as you care for him. I don’t mean to come off harsh or rude or anything but girl, you deserve so much better. A man who truly wants to put YOU first, will tell any other girl to fuck off.

My boyfriend (although I’ll admit is a jerk as well) would never think about another girls feelings before mine. He doesn’t care what girls he hurts as long as he’s with me.

@scx, thank you

That’s how it should be... I agree

Maybe I am just scared to go it alone

@kcnicholep89, it is freaken scary. It's the hardest thing you could possibly do. But mothers find the strength to do things whether it's single parenting or providing for their little ones. Motherhood is hard but you can do whatever life throws at you 😘

I’m really sorry you’re going through this, I wish I had more advice to give but trust me, if you do this alone, you got this. You’ll find you’re stronger than you think💛

I have a 2 and a half year old girl. Me and my ex husband have joint custody. It’s just sad that neither of my girls may end up with parents who are together and that kills me.