My aunt that adopted my first little one posted this on Facebook, what she wrote at the top hurt but…
My aunt that adopted my first little one posted this on Facebook, what she wrote at the top hurt but also reminding me that I truly did the right thing, I’m so happy I got to give her the greatest gift life has to offer. It’s also a reminder to not ask women about having kids... feeling emotional 😔
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It is rude, I had a missed miscarriage in December 2016 it broke my heart when people kept asking when I was going to have a second child and when I was gonna try too. You never know what someone has been through so you shouldn’t assume.
Newlyironman·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I'm confused... she adopted your baby? How is she baby secondary infertility?
Raelene Gosselin·
@michellemybell09, sorry for your loss momma ❤️ it’s just not something you ask about!
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@raelene_g, thank you❤️
Raelene Gosselin·
@newlyironman, she says that because some people on her Facebook don’t know he’s adopted, and it’s none of there business to know. It’s just what she chooses.
Newlyironman·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@raelene_g ahh got it
Steph·
It’s really ignorant to ask someone that when you don’t why they don’t have children or asking if they are having more etc. I get asked a lot, are you going to try for a girl, since you have two boys? Little do they know, I lost two babies that were boys. It really upsets me. A lot of the time my oldest will chime in and say, there are 4 of us, my other 2 brothers are in heaven and it shuts them up real quick.
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@theycallmemommy, I am sorry for your losses. Some people just don’t think before they open their mouths.