I see so many moms who constantly put their child(ren) at risk because they are too fucking hardheaded to take advice or too stupid to do research. Maybe both. How about instead of saying "it mine/ her kid I/she knows whats best" realize that there is a chance things are being done wrong and you're just lucky the consequences of you being a dumbass hasn't hit yet. Feeding your kid stuff they are too young for is not a joke. Car seat safety is not a joke. Smoking/ doing drugs while pregnant is not a fucking joke. Just don't let it be until your kid is dead or seriously fucked up for you to open your eyes and realize maybe everyone is just giving good advice and not being on your ass about shit.