hi my name is erika i am 19 weeks pregnant i am a first time mom and I have having twins and things…

Start planning plan b just in case but hope for the best. They sometimes come around after the birth. They are also afraid, more than we are.

@mokai08 he says he's not afraid and he just acts heartless like he's saying basically he only wants the kids out of this not me and this pregnancy just hasn't been enjoyable at all

@erikanbethune2 I'm sorry to hear that momma. It's something that you may have to accept or it may be that he feels too tied down. Either way, your life goes on and it's not over if he decides he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with you. Again though, it's early yet and soooooo much can change in 9 months. He sounds like he needs to grow up. Give him space. If you don't act like you need him he may change his tune. Holding on to him will push him away.

@mokai08 i guess so just scared that either way he will leave in the end...

@erikanbethune2 I know it seems hopeless right now. You gotta give it some time. Focus on you and your babies for now. It's not a forgone conclusion yet. He may just need time.

@mokai08 thanks for that i hope your righ