I don’t know what else to do, I have talked to my husband about his two older boys (14&8) calling my…

Unfortunately no matter what you say to a kid they’re gonna believe what other kids say more. Tell the kids yourself and tell their mother

I’m so sorry :/ maybe tell your husband he needs to discipline them because they’re bullies and it’s only gonna get worse. Especially when they get to high school, they’re gonna say the wrong shit to someone and get their asses kicked lol. Why can’t you say something to them? You guys are married so his kids are your kids as well.

With my job, I see this a fair amount. I find it best personally to stop and sit down with everyone, talk about empathy and kindness. Be the teacher for a minute, instead of the mom...if you can. Treat your home like a classroom when those kids are there.

@kellynicole, I have spoke with there mother over it many times, and it does no good to talk to her

@scx, I have told them with especially how the 14 year old acts they should be grounded or something.. he just talks them and tell them to stop but the minute we turn around it happens again

@roseausten, I’m a preschool teacher so I don’t see much of this... but this just hurts so bad.

@racing.88, maybe it’s time you ground them, let them know what they’re doing isn’t ok and take away whatever they have. Every time I was disrespectful, my dad wasn’t having it and he sure wouldn’t just “talk” to me lol. I’m sorry 😐

Loose your shit once, really good and crazy. And those boys will listen to you forever 😂 then you can always blame the hormones

^^ I love that advice 😂 it sounds like it’d work

For real i would lose my shit! & if I was in your position I’d have a serious talk with your SO & tell him that this is doing much harm to your 6 year old. Is the 6 year old also his ?

@scx, It sounds crazy but it works. I hate when people use the R word as an insult so that alone would be enough to upset me. But when it comes to my kids well being I can pretend to be crazy for a bit 😝

@leslyev92, no my six year old isn’t his.

I have yelled and cried and everything else.. I guess I’m gonna try to ground them myself the next time we have them. And take things away, cause this is uncalled for.

@racing.88, I see. I’d have a serious conversation with your husband about the situation. They could really hurt your sons self esteem if he isn’t strong enough and there is nothing worse than having the bully in your own home. You never know what can happen, i would analyze the situation and not to be extreme or anything and I know you are having a baby with him but if his kids don’t let up & he doesn’t seriously shut them down as he should then I would consider my options. Nothing is worth your son being bullied and growing up broken because some kids in his own home come in and say mean shit to him. At school it’s one thing but in your own house, there’s no peace of mind for your little one. I have a 6 year old myself and I’ll be damned if anyone comes into my home to bully him.

I’ve been very thoughtful of other opinions. I don’t want my baby to feel this way ever. :(

If my partner didn’t shut this down I would walk away. These kids are only going to get worse the older they get.