S/o thinks he cant have kids, cant be the father bc his ex had multiple miscarriages and then a…

That emoji is unsettling considering the previous words, but congrats!

😐😑😭🤔

I get what you were trying to say but the emoji doesn’t help. Congratulations on your pregnancy tho!

Thats not the funny part. Im laughing at him bc of his logic.

There's is nothing funny about that. And honestly I'm hurt. The emoji was abourr the ridicules statement

What’s funny about the last part? Karma has a weird way of making things happen.

But anyways some “men” are dumb when it comes to having children. They make excuses. Congratulations.

So is he still your S/O?

Congrats

Congrats

Super confused about the 😂 emoji given the context

Seriously? I said that the emoji had nothing to do with it. Poor placing.

Congratulations!

Congratulations 🎉

Does he understand that a miscarriage and death have nothing to do with his semen?

Congratulations! Hope y’all get it figured out.

Congratulations 🎉🎉.

He's probably just a little shocked and talking out of his arse. I'm sure he'll get with the programme soon.

@honeymoonblessing

Ty you. I really hope so bc i am seething. I cant even look at him.

@mhbbb2 I would be angry too, but try not to be too hard on him. The complications and loss of a child must have affected him too.

@mhbbb2, could it be that he doesn’t want to believe it because he’s terrified of his past repeating itself?

@mommynes

I think so. He's always wanred to be a father. He said bc he didn't get anyone else pregnant before we were together, he can't gave kids.

I do think he's scared of another loss but i think its also insecurity.

Hes quite a bit older than me and though we've worked through a lot he's very insecure. I just want to get the test over with.

At this point i don't even know if i want to stay with him. I think he's comimg around now that I've stopped bringing it up though. He took me to get the giant pickles i was dying for lol

Yes he is still my so. I'm frustrated and feeling alone but trying to give him time to come to terms w everything

***UPDATE

S/O asked me if I wanted to have sex last night. WTF??

I told him I can't get over him if I'm still having sex with him.

HIM: I know.

He always does this. We fight, he breaks up with me, I move out or out of the room.

Two nights later hes texting me from the room.

I dont know whats happening here, not to sure what I feel anymore. I know the relationship is not very healthy but its like we both are afraid of letting go.