Please tell me who wants to be with someone who 1 won’t keep a job to support the kids y’all have…

Please tell me who wants to be with someone who 1 won’t keep a job to support the kids y’all have together and his other children but wanna lay with you all day everyday, and when the get any type of money from side jobs they #2 blow it on them because they have a drug problem and spend it on they moms house that they stay at from time to time too . #3 has a baby mother they NOT WITH and don’t get along with but shes very disrespectful so therefor he’s asking you to change how you move for an example posting on social media because she lurks and will read your post and call him threatening to take the kids they have together away for nothing . Like who can deal with all that and still be so in love with the guy and want to be with him ?? And this is not new stuff this is 2yrs worth of the same stuff who wants to be with someone like that ?? I’m waiting moms lol !!