Please dont judge me i know i have posted on here a few times asking simular questions but i am…
Please dont judge me i know i have posted on here a few times asking simular questions but i am needing some support right now as i feel i have no one else i can turn too 😔😔
I had a big mistake on 20th october and took the map on 21st October about 12 hours later.
I then got my period around 3 days later for around 8 days at the expected time my period was due it just lasted a little longer.
After the night in question i got with my current partner the day after taking map and have been with him ever since.
I found out i was pregnant on 28th November i did a clear blue test that said i had concieved 1-2 weeks prior.
I then had two early scans one at 6.5 weeks and one at 11.5 weeks both gave edd as 9th August which meant i wasnt as far as i thought going off my lmp.
My scan at 20 weeks and a further scan at 24 weeks both gave same edd as well.
I have read that if you subtract 38 weeks from edd it gives you a rough time of conception and it looks like it is around 16th November.
I have also been assured by a few midwifes that scans are at there most accurate within the first 12 weeks and that although they can possibly be out by a few days they wouldnt be out by weeks
I just feel so anxious as my due date is fast approaching that the baby is a result of the mistake,im going out of my mind and i really need some support.
😔😔😔😔
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
I don't know how much more help people can be on here reading your previous posts 😐 only way you'll know is when the baby is born and do a DNA test, if your current partner doesn't know the situation then I would tell asap
Carly·
The only way to know who babies daddy is would be a DNA test. To spend your pregnancy worrying about it & getting stressed is quite frankly pointless & not healthy for you or baby. I don't understand what the problem is if baby was conceived by "the mistake"? Of course you want your partner to be babies dad but either way baby is your & would be loved the same.
Courtnie·
8 posts for the same thing. If your that worried tell your partner about your one night stand and get a paternity test sorted out. A lot of women on here have commented advice on your other posts and your not taking any advice at all your just posting the same thing over and over again 🤦🏼♀️
Clare Pye·
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You took the map and had a period. Sounds pretty hopeful that it's not from your mistake. But like the girls have said, I think your going to need a DNA test just to ease your mind.
Daisy·
Im so scared 😔😔😊😊
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@daisy321 sorry to be blunt but there's not alot you can do about it right now and posting the same thing over and over isn't going to change your situation either!
Sara-Louise·
It's not a similar question. It's the same question. 8 times... You don't respond either, other than say your anxious and scared. We cannot help or support you. Tell your partner, move on.
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@courtniek98x @sara-lou86 there'll be another post soon I'm not sure what she expects people to do 😑
Willow Gray·
4 weeks is a huge different in early fetal development. You're fine.
Courtnie·
@nataliielouiseexo, 8 posts for the same thing everyone’s said get a DNA what else can she do 🤷🏼♀️
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@courtniek98x no doubt be a fake after all this 😂
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
@miissashleyanne that's how it's coming across isn't it 😂
Sara-Louise·
@miissashleyanne I think your right. I'm not trying to be mean but we cannot help or confirm one way or the other. If her current partner is not aware of any of this I'd be more concerned about that...
Katelynn Johnson·
The map is affective for 48-72 hours after conception took place as long as u didn't ovulate during that time however if u did and you have bled then if was either, early termination or regular period! Deffo think baby is from your second partner!
Rachael·
You had a period after the map and bless after tAking it too. That would say to anyone it’s your partners baby... not sure what else we can say tbh 🤨
Alisha Pomells ·
Unfortunately you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. There is a baby now. Think of your baby not stressing yourself worrying about who the dad is the deeds done now.
Natasha·
I'm not trying to be horrible but this is clearly majorly getting to you. I would go and see you doctor and request counselling regarding it because it might cause issues with you bonding with your baby. Also when baby is born I would do a DNA test because ultimately that is the only way you will ever know 100% yourself. I don't think this baby is a result of your mistake I think you conceived in Nov going off of your dates. I'm not trying to be malicious in anyway and I'm always here for a chat but really feel you should talk to someone xx
Chrissy K·
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@daisy321, inbox!