My bf is acting so dumb lately and i don't understand why. He's a nice person whwn he wants to be but he's very bipolar and any little thing pisses him off. Today I went to the park with my aunt and her kids and he messaged me and called me only i didn't hear my phone ring but when I look at my phone he wants to accuse me of cheating or lying to him about where I'm at like ???? My aunt and her family are the ONLY people in AZ that I know other than that I don't know anyone because he doesn't let me have friends cause he doesn't trust anyone and I shouldn't either
that's a bit controlling I'd say. Maybe talk to him about it and let him know that you're 27 weeks pregnant and the last thing on your mind is cheating and you also need breathers. Going to the park with your aunt shouldn't be that big of a deal!
I feel you !! I just moved to az too ! I have no family at all so when i go to the store and take long he gets soooo mad ! But yet he could be out for hours🤬🙄
Sorry but he sounds controlling. If my husband told me I couldn't have friends or blew up my phone while I was out. I'd throw my wedding ring at his face and walk out for him acting stupid. Your an adult. You should have friends and hang out with your family and if your bf can't trust you then he doesn't deserve you.
Right now I'm not working because at my last job he didn't like my manager cause he felt he was being too friendly with me even though he treated me like shit he made me quit my job so I just stay at home and clean and wash clothes and do dishes and cook and he works almost all day 6 days a week so I don't really complain about anything at all but its so draining trying to make him happy all the time when 5× outta 10 I'm not sure how he's gonna react so then he'll start saying shit like oh I pay all the bills and whatnot and I'm like ?????? Okay I would of been helping out if you didnt make me quit my job I'm all prego now no one will hire me. And he does and says stupid shit to me all the time and expects me not to be mad at him for it but when I do the same to him he gets all angry and butthurt like wtf okay
@just.dulce there's def something wrong here. If you ever need someone to talk to, just hit me up. You sound like you need to express your mind. It doesn't sound like you have a supportive bf and you def don't need to bottle all that stuff in or feel alone
He sounds like he has control issues. It’s not okay for him to make you quit a job, try to isolate you from family and friends and hold money over your head. These are actually toxic and abusive behavior patterns. Would he be open to counseling? The only way this situation will improve is if he decides to change his behavior.
Dulce·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
My bf is acting so dumb lately and i don't understand why. He's a nice person whwn he wants to be but he's very bipolar and any little thing pisses him off. Today I went to the park with my aunt and her kids and he messaged me and called me only i didn't hear my phone ring but when I look at my phone he wants to accuse me of cheating or lying to him about where I'm at like ???? My aunt and her family are the ONLY people in AZ that I know other than that I don't know anyone because he doesn't let me have friends cause he doesn't trust anyone and I shouldn't either
Dulce·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
Sorry long comment lol
Steph·
that's a bit controlling I'd say. Maybe talk to him about it and let him know that you're 27 weeks pregnant and the last thing on your mind is cheating and you also need breathers. Going to the park with your aunt shouldn't be that big of a deal!
Jenna Curiel·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
I feel you !! I just moved to az too ! I have no family at all so when i go to the store and take long he gets soooo mad ! But yet he could be out for hours🤬🙄
Deanna·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Sorry but he sounds controlling. If my husband told me I couldn't have friends or blew up my phone while I was out. I'd throw my wedding ring at his face and walk out for him acting stupid. Your an adult. You should have friends and hang out with your family and if your bf can't trust you then he doesn't deserve you.
Dulce·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
Right now I'm not working because at my last job he didn't like my manager cause he felt he was being too friendly with me even though he treated me like shit he made me quit my job so I just stay at home and clean and wash clothes and do dishes and cook and he works almost all day 6 days a week so I don't really complain about anything at all but its so draining trying to make him happy all the time when 5× outta 10 I'm not sure how he's gonna react so then he'll start saying shit like oh I pay all the bills and whatnot and I'm like ?????? Okay I would of been helping out if you didnt make me quit my job I'm all prego now no one will hire me. And he does and says stupid shit to me all the time and expects me not to be mad at him for it but when I do the same to him he gets all angry and butthurt like wtf okay
Dulce·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
I'm sorry I'm ranting I have no friends and no one to express my feelings to
Sarah ·
@just.dulce there's def something wrong here. If you ever need someone to talk to, just hit me up. You sound like you need to express your mind. It doesn't sound like you have a supportive bf and you def don't need to bottle all that stuff in or feel alone
Letty ·
Went through the same with my hubby everything changed when I started looking for jobs and showing how much day care is her started to change big time
👾👾👾·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
He sounds like he has control issues. It’s not okay for him to make you quit a job, try to isolate you from family and friends and hold money over your head. These are actually toxic and abusive behavior patterns. Would he be open to counseling? The only way this situation will improve is if he decides to change his behavior.