So I need some advice or rather what yall would do in this situation. I'm the petty queen when need…
So I need some advice or rather what yall would do in this situation. I'm the petty queen when need be and the cut you off queen.
So my husband and I share a mutual childhood friend, whom I call my brother. He has been with this "girl" for some years now and it always seemed as though she was jealous of me and tried to compete. So today I get a phone call from one of her friends telling me that my brother's girlfriend has been saying I think my kids and my family is better than everyone else and I think myself and my husband is better than everyone.
Me being who I am i told her friend thanks for the Info and hung up, I have been contemplating whether to make a house visit, be petty and or cut her off completely. I do want her to know how I really feel though.
What would yall do? Mature responses only please no ghetto ratchedness thanks.
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe you came across that way but that is really not your intentions. So I would talk to her about it and see if you can both come to an agreement to agree or agree to disagree. As for her so called friend why is she being a messenger. What exactly is her intention and purpose for telling you and why now 🤔🤔🤔. I don't trust ppl like that 🤥.
Mrs. Shellz·
As far as her "friend" I thought the same exact thing! I dont either!.........as far as the girlfriend go I talked to her this am and she basically denied everything, or didn't mean certain things that way. I just let her know that I am who I am I'm not in so shape or form trying to compete with anyone and yes I definitely think highly of my family as should everyone not just me. She basically said that it was a miscommunication. I also told her she need to be aware of the people that are in her circle.......
Lisa·
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Glad you resolved it and informed her of the bit** friend in her 😶 circle. Definitely would have a few words to tell her especially if she told me info about my family. Like listen to me vent but shut your trap lol. Clearly your maybe sister-in-law was back peddling because her friend told the info differently. Could have been just her perception. Feel her out some more and you'll no truth from fake. Just keep an open forum without judgement and let her dig her own hole if she is a fake person. Just never go off what others say too hastly @angelinamomwife
Mrs. Shellz·
@starting_over39 yea she is definitely fake lol I just can't deal with those type of people around me or my family.
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
@angelinamomwife likewise 😉