Are you having a baby shower? If so at what point are you having it. I have a 8 month old and I never had a baby shower with him. I literally have bought everything he has my self. No gifts or anything. My cousin heard me talking about a baby show and says I’m being selfish cause this isn’t my first baby 🤔. I’m planning a July shower when I’m 8 months is that too soon.
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I had one at 31 weeks with my son. The timing was perfect for me because I still had plenty of time to prepare afterwards.
Thanks ladies. Im planning in my shower to be the last weekend of July or the first weekend of August
I didn’t have one with my first but I was 17 and didn’t really think my friends would have been into baby showers at that age. 8 years later I had one with my second at 35 weeks. This is my third pregnancy and first baby girl, I don’t want a shower but my girlfriends all want to shop for the first little girl our group has had in years so they are throwing a baby sprinkle at some stage during this pregnancy. In my opinion do what you like, if you want to have a shower for each baby you have one! 8 months is perfect timing! Hope your shower is wonderful!
In my family it doesn’t matter if it is your 1st or 5th baby, you get a shower for every baby! Girl have your shower and enjoy it! You deserve it mama!
8 months is fine , I had my son baby shower at 8 months also
It’s def not selfish, it’s to shower the baby! Just because you have a baby already doesn’t mean the second baby doesn’t get showered. I’ve had showers for all 3 baby’s. I had this one at 34 weeks!
I’m having mine right around 28 weeks for the simple fact of I’m high risk and will probably have him early and they want me prepared. And it’s more convenient for my hostess and family as well. So 🤷🏼♀️
I don’t even care if people buy things cause I have bought a lot of my registry items already cause I don’t like counting on people and I don’t want to have to rush at the end. But I just want a get together for my baby since I was not with family with my first pregnancy.
It's not being selfish. You're not forcing anyone to buy anything. And 8 months is fine. I had mine at 35 weeks.
I hate how ppl call women with multiple children selfish for having a baby shower for each baby they have. At the end the day EVERY BABY NEEDS TO BE CELEBRATED😡. So no your no selfish for having a baby shower and July is good I plan to have my shower at 32wks which will be July 22nd and this is my 4th baby. And I promise if nobody comes me and my kids will mos def have a good time at the park!
I definitely dont think its selfish or think 8 months is to soon. I had one at 31 weeks with my daughter and will be having a baby shower with this baby too around the same time.
CANNOT STAND WHEN PEOPLE SAY THAT! It’s not a act of being selfish. Letting a family enjoy a new family member bring born soon. I had a baby shower for my second & didn’t get nearly as much as I did with my fist. But it was celebrating her.
I didn’t have the opportunity to have a baby shower for this baby. My next baby you better bet I’m going to have one. I want to experience having one and I’m sad I didn’t get one this time. 8 months is fine (: don’t let anyone tell you it’s not okay
I had one with my 2yo at 8 months ... idk if I’ll have one with this one well if my side of the family will participate if I do