Baby and Mama Having High BP.

Last night something had me beyond the boiling point between my husband and my sister in law. I was hearing her in my living room after 5 yrs of putting me and my husband through so much and her not speaking to us for 3yrs and show up on our door step at 10 at night banging on the door, then he just goes outside and talks for 1 hr and then lets her into my house until 12 midnight knowing we had to be up at 6 am, walking all through it like she owned it. I was in bed and I got up to pee she walked past me didn't speak and goes into my room like she is boss.?!?!? I was so heated that my husband let her in and let alone disrespecting me in my own house. She was even trying to get him to wake up our 1 yr old she aint never seen and for that year talked so bad about him. I said hell no. Mean while she was in the living room again and just her voice and her fake stuff was getting me so upset I felt my pulse through every part of my skin, then I felt my baby girl in my tummy flipping out.