HELP. STRESSRD moving alone ?

I have so much to move today and my so refuses to help pack because hes paid for the apartment and movers. This just breaks my heart. Im 16 weeks pregnant doing all this on my own. The movers will be here at 3.. Its 1130 now... I still have so much to pack and cant even move around the apartment cause boxes are to heavy for me to move out the way. Im so out of breathe im in a 2 story moving to a 3. I only have the movers for 3 hours and its a 30 min drive there than its time consuming to run up and down flights of stairs to move.. I feel like s*** but its also only making me stronger. So emberssing when we fought i threw up in my hands all over my face. I looked like a idot. All i can do is get so mad then cry. This kills me because since i got with him ive spent a LOT of MY MONEY on him and necessary things like rent moving car note gas ect food. In essence we only have one vehicle this last check he got was supposed to be his check to get a truck yet we had to move and that cost money to get into the apartment and what else I had a $800 check that we were supposed to save for the move so he'd only have to use a little bit of money when it comes to me I never argue about the money he's just upset because he can't use that money to go get his vehicle but before we decided to do this he was okay with it saying baby it's okay we gotta do what we gotta do I'll eventually get my vehicle and then for the last two days after spending the money he won't talk he's rude gives me a cold shoulder and this is just really childish I'm 22 he's 38 acting like he is 17 and now forcing me to move everything into boxes all by myself.. and not to mention when we first got together for the first 8 months he stopped working I took care of him because he owns his own business he could have kept working but decided to take a break because I was making enough money and I was okay with that I never did any of the things he does to me money is the root of all evil. what would you do in this situation???