am I over acting? So dh got paid this past Friday. We agreed to save as much money as we can because…

am I over acting?

So dh got paid this past Friday. We agreed to save as much money as we can because he's going to miss a couple days of work next week due to me having surgery. He's still working while I'm in the hospital because we're not sure how long I'll be there. So he will be using more gas coming to see me and driving back home. Well in order to save money I went and I bought him stuff to take for lunch at work. And we agreed no unnecessary spending. But he did tell me I can get my hair done because I need it badly and short hair is going to be easier for me to take care of. Well Friday afternoon comes around I sit down to pay all the bills I notice he spends $110 at Home Depot for tools that he wants not needs. So I kind of blow it off okay it's technically his paycheck I just won't get my hair done. I'm used to it at this point. So today I go and check our balance ( I honestly don't remember why) but I see he went to lunch Monday and spent $30 on just him eating. And I don't know why but I'm legitimately angry because I feel like I'm the only one that goes without. And it's annoying me right now. I went to go make me something to eat and apparently he took it upon himself to eat my lunch stuff sometime between Saturday and today. Did I order food or go get something else? No I stayed home and figured it out. I asked him if there was any special reason he had to go out to lunch like with his boss or something? His answer is no he just didn't feel like eating what he had there. I'm just tired of being the only one that thinks about our budgets and the only one that sacrifices her wants/ needs.