appointment hell I just need to get this out insurance is effing stupid! My DD has a GI appointment…

appointment hell

I just need to get this out insurance is effing stupid! My DD has a GI appointment August 14th the day before she officially turns 3. So I call her pediatrician that's in the same building to try and get her well child check August 14th. That way my husband would only miss one day at work. But no insurance won't let me schedule it because it's one flipping day before she's three. So that's two days off of work or at least two half days. Because if you've ever been to a specialist you know changing your appointments with them pushes you back a few months. I'm not doing that. Why do they have to make everything more complicated then it really needs to be? It's 24 hours but for her birthday really? Because insurance and doctors want to be so complicated I feel like all I do is take kids to the doctor. Between DDS GI, neurologist, and just regular pediatrician. Along with Bubba pediatrician and trying to get his formula straighten back out and his Surgical check-ups. I haven't even had time to go back for my postpartum check up it's been 9 weeks. I guess I'm just feeling overwhelmed because there's no time to make appointments for myself. But as long as the babies are taken care of