is it wrong to cancel So I posted about it before that my dd's bio dad is in prison and won't be in…

is it wrong to cancel

So I posted about it before that my dd's bio dad is in prison and won't be in her life. And honestly shouldn't be. But I've always told him he can at least call and check on her. He hasn't called in 3 months. Well I talk to his mother the other day and she let it slip that he hasn't been calling me because he finally realized I'd never be with him again. WTF! The fact that we're never going to be together shouldn't stop you from checking on your child expecially if that's the only thing you can do!!! Before she told me this I agreed to let her see my daughter when she's in town next week. But now I'm having second thoughts. If he can't even call and check on her why should I let his family see her at all? She doesn't even know who they are. They only visit her for like an hour maybe 4 times in almost 3 years. And have to visit she's glued to me because these people are strangers to her. So is it wrong of me to want to cancel the visit with her? And to top it off that weekend is my first wedding anniversary weekend. And I honestly don't want to have my husband deal with that because I know he wanted to spend time together this weekend since he works on our anniversary.