why do I expect any different?

So I finally got the date for my C-section which is May 8th at 8:30 a.m. so I do what I'm supposed to do call my husband let him know, and then call my mom so she can get off work like she wanted me to. And she's over here complaining that that would mean his birthday would always fall on the first weekend of May. Yeah, so what's your point? Well that's inconvenient for my stepdad and her because that's an important Lake weekend apparently. I'm not rescheduling the delivery of my child tip it your summer plans every year. This woman is nuts. She told me she hopes I go early so it doesn't interfere. Which I probably will but who says that? And then I call my father who im are not that close with anyways to let him know because God forbid I let one parent know without the other. And he starts griping about how early it is in the morning. Like really dude I didn't ask you to be there. You can come if you want but it don't hurt me any. My parents just always make it about them. Don't get me wrong I love them and my mom has done great things for me but she is so selfish if it interferes with anything with her husband or her Lake time she can't be bothered. Hell she hasn't been to my nephew's birthday party in 7 years because his birthday is Memorial weekend.