Joint custody?
Today, I went to see my son's father's attorney to sign paperwork establishing paternity, child support, and visitation rights. Unfortunately, she wasn't there to go over anything, but she left the terms of agreement for me to sign. Well, while looking at the paperwork, I saw several things that I absolutely did NOT agree with, so I decided to not sign the paperwork without my lawyer being there and without having spoken to their attorney. Before I left, I asked her paralegal in the office who had given me the papers if he could print out a copy for my records. He stepped off to call my son's father's attorney and when he came back, he said "I'm sorry, but I can't make a copy because she doesn't represent you. She's also not to see or speak with you because she doesn't represent you. According to her, you knew the terms of the agreement and were only coming in to sign them." Yeah.... Except I DIDN'T. Well, I told him this and he goes on to say "Well don't sign it." Cool. And I leave. I've not spoken to my son's father in months. Literally every exchange that I've had with anyone on his end has been with his mother. When I have something to say about my son, I talk to her. When they want to see him, she picks him up... So I called her and asked her if we could negotiate on some things and she goes on to tell me that either I agree with what her son wants me to do or they take me to family court.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you ...
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her ...