@brittany1989ruttan, I think your over thinking or overreacting a little. Why did you not celebrate any holidays...? Calling you by your name is normal. My spouse is 35 and would never call me babe in a post it’s just him, and he’s private and I think part of it is respect. He calls me Heather and I call him Darrell. Yeah we call each other babe and Turkey mostly but we use names too lol. I know that your feeling hurt and that’s ok but I don’t think there’s anything sinister behind him calling you by your first name.

just not something I'm used to.... kinda hurt... every post for the first year was all my Babe and now he don't post at all and when he does its by my first name ... it probably wouldn't have me asking so many questions to myself if we had celebrated Valentine's day , anniversary, mothers day, Christmas.... anything would be nice .... just sucks a little that something has changed (I think anyway...)

@lii94, My hubs is the same he would always refer to me as “Heather” if speaking about me to someone or posting something.

Pretty sure you may be over reacting a bit. I usually get called babe but we do use our names just as often? And on Facebook he would be all "me and babe got new numbers" its would be "me and lisa" 🤷

I'm confused too

Your first name as in your maiden name?

I’m confused and not seeing the issue with your spouse calling you by your first name? It is your name..? Sure mine calls me babe but of course he uses my name too lol

Sorry..what do you mean calling you by your first name? I don’t see how that’s bad :/